This is not for me... Had a first punt and second punt.  First girl BBBJ, capped sex.  Second, just BBBJ.  What's my risk for STD? What are my alternatives if there are symptoms and I want to keep this from SO.  

Serious help appreciated.

You should read the FAQ, first.  You'll know that this is NOT a medical board and giving medicial advice is frowned upon here.

Second, there is only option to cure your state of mind.  Go get tested.  Hong Kong has plenty if free or low-cost clinics - and they are anonymous.  Google it.

Third, yes, you can get HPV, herpes or other STDs from a BBBJ.  The odds are low, however, given that the mouth is a somewhat hostile environment for most bacteria and many viruses.  But low is not zero.  If you have worries, go get tested.  Nothing than can be said here will further reduce your exposure or change the odds.

I agree with wander - get an anonymous test, and not at the clinic closest to your home.

But the question is: once you find out that you don't have an STD (assuming that is the case, which it most likely is), will you still feel the regret?

If you are to continue as a punter, you'll need to figure out how to rationalize away your cheating. For those of us with SO's, we all have managed to do this. "Oh, she knows in her heart, but as long as I don't bring it home...", "Well, if she gave me more/better sex then I wouldn't have to ...", "It's in the culture...". I suppose there are some whose SO knows and truly doesn't care, but probably not many.

You are wise to worry about your SO's reaction, feelings, and health. Figuring this out is part of becoming a punter. Hiding it from SO (while not driving yourself mad) is not easy, but it is easy to become complacent. Then you're really playing with fire.

Gherk

I understand this is not a medical forum.  I read the FAQs.  Came here because there are others that experienced exact same. Appreciate the comments.  

Gherk, no, if she doesn't find out I won't be doing this again.  The curiosity got the best of me and I learned it's not what I hyped up in my mind.  

This is ground I do not want to tread again.

you don't really need medical help or advise, what you're here for is you want to be mothered
so please go and get help from a shrink

You decided to go punting and now you regret it and need advice on how to hide from your SO?

Wrong forums mate.. next time do your risk analysis before the first and prior to the second.

Here's some mothering for you

Bad news, you have a very high chance of picking up some sort of HPV, simply from having multiple partners, pro or unpaid.  Good news, HPV probably won't affect you.  Bad news, it is one of the leading causes of cancer in women.  

More good news, from just two exposures there is a reasonable chance you didn't catch anything at all.  Most of the nasty ones don't get transmitted by BBBJ.  

More bad news, the ONLY way you will know is to get checked.  Get tested at the government clinic (for free) then go get the other tests done at a private clinic (the government don't do a full screening, just the nastiest ones).  PS HPV screening would require you to get a genotyping done, which you will have to push for as they don't usually do it for men.  

Keeping it from your SO?    Honestly mate that's naive ...

Duh: only way is for you to come up with some sort of believable excuse for you to avoid having sex with her (for approx 4-6 weeks) while you wait for the blood tests.  

sorry, but it does sound like you need to
  a) grow a pair and
  b) do more research and planning BEFORE you act out your fantasies

Well, "follow your heart" is probably the best advice. FWIW, after my first punt, I felt glad that I'd done it, but I knew I had absolutely no need to ever do it again. There was no doubt in my mind.

The next day, I went to another provider. And each of the following seven days. And in that week, I knew what I was and what it meant.

Addiction? Hobby? Thrill? Probably a bit of all three. I can tell you it wasn't just for sex. The best sex I've ever had is with my wife (yes yes, I know, the best sex you've all had is with my wife too -- thought I'd save you all the need to mention it). But the best thrill is punting -- for me, but perhaps not for you.

Everything is open to you, from winking at the Starbuck's girl, to drinking at strip clubs and girlie bars, through massage+HJ, to full-on sex. You may decide that "nothing" is right for you, in which case I say good for you. Or you might find yourself drawn back to the dark side.

If you find yourself coming back to "the dark side", do yourself a favor and come to terms with yourself before you do the deed next time. Your psychological and medical (and marital) risks come from your choices, so you'd better think them through a little better than you did last time.

Gherk