Originally posted by jgaw88 at 12-4-2008 14:54
Pardon me for disagreeing– you are a Saint I am sure - but I don’t really agree on your point about sex is necessarily being better with GFs and WGs are only for older guys who can’t get the sweet young things anymore.
I never said that WGs were only for older guys, only that if you are an older guy, the only way you're going to have sex with beautiful 20 yr-olds is by paying for it. However sex with someone you really love is much better than sex with a stranger. If it isn't, that can only mean that feelings of intimacy and caring add nothing to the experience - which is to say what? And the gold standard of a good screw with a WG is the GFE; i.e., the sex was as good as with a GF.
For me they are just two different types of experiences and they both satisfy a need for me.
Exactly my point. But you're forgetting that these comments were made in reference to advice given to Kennichi
who has never had a GF.
I don’t really confuse the two and I like both. Maybe its is bit like eating candy (WG) as opposed to a big satisfying meal (GF). Both can be enjoyable. If you ask me which I would rather have – sure I would rather have a big satisfying meal. But that does not mean I don’t like eating candy too.
I never disagreed with that.
It also really depends a lot on your definition of GF. I have had quite a few regular GFs in my life. Most were about getting some sex and really not much more – not really any different than what I get from a WG, but a lot more expensive and time consuming. With both WG and GFs it is often about the thrill of something new.
Sure, if by GF you only mean a chick who you bribe for sex and nothing else, the two probably offer similar satisfactions. But even then, whatever affection exists between the two of you must add something to the equation.
The really big GF experience is something much rarer – that is the kind with a big emotional attachment - which is an entire experience and not necessarily just about sex. That is really something to be experienced - I agree. But this really intense feeling only last a few months or a year or so - and frankly may only happen to most people a few times in their lives at most.
Exactly, and that is why Kennichi is missing something very special if his only experience of physical intimacy with a woman is limited to paying strangers for 45 mins of sex.
As to how common loosing your virginity to a hooker is I can’t comment – you maybe right. I do know that I normally don’t talk about it to others. So it may be that you just don’t hear about it as much. It sure happens in the movies a lot – think Risky Business with Tom Cruise.
A lot of things happen in the movies - like aliens attacking earth.
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