Bros,

Not sure if this has ever been discussed but if it has, mods, feel free to delete it but do point me in the right direction.

A friend and I had this discussion the other night over some beers. Turned into a debate actually. So here's the situation:

You go mongering at some SN. Things get hot and heavy and you slip your lil bro in her lil sis. She doesn't fight it and in fact goes with it and gives you a few pumps. You finally come to your senses and push her off and get a condom. My argument was even though you're inside by accident or you were just thinking with your little head for that split second, using a condom afterwards reduces the risk of STDs (forget about the whole pregnancy issue for a second). My buddy insists it doesn't really matter cause what's done would have already been done, so you may as well enjoy it and worry about it later and continue to have sex with her sans condom.

Would you bros continue without a condom? And if so, why that sort of mentality? Would I just be comforting myself if I had slipped a condom on after the damage has been done??

It's not like you touch an STD and you've caught it.  Your body has some natural defenses.  However prolonged contact increases the risk of transmission.  And there are two issues... STD and pregnancy.

STD
If it was an accident, the safest thing to do is wash off lil bro with soap and water, put on a condom, and continue.  Not that big of a deal.  Stopping and putting on a condom is still a good idea, but without washing, you still have her fluids on your skin.  Just rubbing your lil bro on her lil sis when she is wet will do the same thing (to a lesser degree).

Pregnancy
Pre-ejaculate contains sperm.  Not a lot, but it is there.  That's why the pull-out method of birth control is laughable.  Stopping at any point and putting on a condom will lover your risks of pregnancy.

If it is with a gf or girl I trust I like to go a little bit without a condom.  But this is just not good advice.  And if a SN girl is willing to do it with you, she's willing to do it with everyone.  So definitely don't do it with any WG.  IMHO

Well clearly its already a risk but my gut feeling (am no doctor) is that the longer you're exposed (assuming she has stds) the more risks. In any case, no "pumping" of anysort should be done for your safety and hers.... and accidental slipping rarely happens...

Am sure mods will comment as usually not the right place (but you are talking of a concept) but these are my 2cts.

I've had those experiences before and unless the girl resisted , i would enter Live Wire for a few pumps then pull it out, wash up and then slip a CD, enter again then continue pumping.
A few instances i would just continue to pump then withdraw when cumming.

I dont know if I can resist that and put a condom back on

Regardless of the science, I'd suggest that if you can bring yourself to pull out and put the condom on... It can't HURT or make the odds worse... Though I may suggest giving the boy a wash down before trapping it in a rubber sheath covered in potentially infected juices. Even if it doesn't help... It cant hurt. Gotta be better than keeping on going without a cap.

putting CD later makes only sense when you wash it before i'd say.

I vote for the wash and cap as well. It's like starting a new sex session with another girl as far as your penis is concerned. Just cos you barebacked in the last session doesn't mean that you should bareback the next one right?

wash and cap definitely, but just slipping one on is better than continuing without one.

If you bash your head against the wall once, you might not bleed. And you probably want to stop. If you keep bashing it, chances of your head splitting open increases with each subsequent bash. =)~

And in terms of pregnancies.... Uhmmm.....gr. 9 sex ed anyone? =)~

~UD

had thus experience 5 years ago, first like the feeling but after few pump just stop and cap. i did a std test few week later to make sure didn't get anything

Btw i don't think clean LB with dettol or any alcohol is very usefull, dettol is not prove to be usefull with std and sure cannot kill virus. some germs can prevent other germs or virus to develop so it's a kind of protection which is destro by the dettol

I would say it never too late to cap up this does happen we k ow it shouldn't but it does especially if hunt in wan chai with Indonesians.

They can be on fairly swiftly and before you know you done something silly.

But if realise just pull out go for continuation of the bj whilst reach for a party hat.

It's probably safer to cap late than not at all, although no one's ever done a phase III trial on this.   Think of infection as a game of probabilities.  The more time you spend with your naked weiner in her pus filled vagina the greater your likelihood of you getting whatever she's got.  It's not a done deal at first poke.

I once read an ancient study by the U.S. Military where they tested the "wash the cooties off" hypothesis.  They took soldiers in 1940-something and got them within 30-60 minutes after BB exposure at several local bordellos (who the hell knows how they managed  this!).  The military weiners were treated with both a direct injection and a sulfa plaster followed by wrapping them in wax paper for a certain amount of time (hopefully all this was being administered by beautiful nurses? Which would also explain how they got the    Joes to show up in the first place . . . ).  The end result?  All that scrubbing and cleaning had no effect on preventing disease.  Now maybe if you scrub your dick in the first 5 minutes it will be different, but who knows?  You're a test pilot on this one!

My friend got his gf pregnant, says he didnt shoot inside but pulled out. Now she is pregnant and married

You friend really sucks at withdrawal or your friend has "joseph" syndrome.

I think this is an easy answer - put the jacket on ASAP before you continue anything else.

I read something like this a long time ago about hiv:
during sex, there is constant pulling and pushing, creating microscopic tearing in the tissue (prob of both male & female). It is these microtears that allow external fluids to enter the bloodstream. This is exactly how hiv is transmitted. Anal sex is higher risk because of the tighter fit, and also because the anus and rectum have no natural lubrication and will naturally tear more easily.

Along those same lines, the longer the duration of regular vaginal sex, the more likelihood of microtears in the penis and vagina. So, if you had just inserted the penis, it was well lubricated, and there were just a few pumps, then the likelihood of tearing is lower. As with skin anywhere on the body, the more you rub it, the weaker it gets, its that simple.

Therefore, I would think that putting on the condom after a few pumps would help a hell of a lot!

But the WG's that let you do it... they take a great risk too? For the ones that did pump a few times... did the girl really like you or was it just that they didn't care about STD or HIV or anything else?

Anyone ever came in a WG without a condom??

Does coming in a girl, who was at work count?

Simple answer: Some sort of exponential decrease in the increase of the odds of contracting an STD over exposure (unprotected sex). But nonetheless an increase in odds.

Source: BSc Physiology & 'Common sense'

Your friend really should know better.