Subject: Mongering alone or in a group?
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Mongering alone or in a group?

Hi,

one question is in my mind. 2 Years ago i was in HK and was mongering in Nep2 and Escape - alone. I will spend another week in summer there and I wonder whether the experience is any better if acting with a friend or in a group. I personally was not good in getting into talks with the ladies. Yeah i know ... its not the reason we go there. But just to warm up with the girl and sense the mood of the girl i'd like to spend some time before. Furthermore, the girls like to get some drinks sponsored. Apart from that, i got the feeling wherever couple of guys was standing bulked with some of the girls they had more fun than those who stood alone with one or more girls.

So what is your experience? Do you prefer to go lonely into the fight or with mates/friends/colleagues?

(I tried forum search but didn't find any reasonable post on this topic. Sorry when it was discussed already)
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Hi Mickey I am in the same situation as you.  I will be going alone.  Do you see many guys at the bars alone? or mainly in groups?
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well i've been there only once and its 2years ago. Dunno remember the ratio of groups vs single.

Since i'll be on journey alone again, i would ask maybe here if any brother would like to team up with me
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Reply #1 mickeyblue's post

Seems like they're plenty of single guys as well as posses on the prowl.

If you find the one-on-one conversation awkward try picking up two or three girls in a group for chit-chat.  Not that you have to take them all back to your room, but I've always made a habit of buying drinks for the girl I want AND her friends.  Sure it's more expensive, but it's a fun situation and more of a party atmosphere when you do that and the girls really appreciate it.




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Go to Neptune 2 early, around 7, and get a booth.  Order some food.  I guarantee you that girls will flock to your table and eat all the food.  You will have your own little party.  As the night goes on you will look like a serious player because you have a booth and tons of girls.  They might wander off to try to pick up a monger, but they will return to your table between tries.

My point is, even going solo you can make your own group.
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Going with a buddy you really trust is a lot of fun. He has your back, you can drink some more without the fear of ending up on the street naked... plus the whole experience isn't just go in, find, fuck, leave... try to enjoy the whole thing, and a friend really helps me thinks
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I will said in group is always better at least u will be seem as more open and not 1 person army
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I can't speak for HK WG bars... but with reg. bars in general....a female friend can be the best wing person ever.  I've gotten great distance with female friends winging for me at both strip clubs & reg. bars.
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hm ok. Nice replys.

Maybe i will try as i did once last time. I just hang out in a "normal" bar (i thing it was the argave) for some food observing the curtain bar opposite of the street and tried to bet which passing guy they get in (they have a really bad success rate ;) ). Later another guy i'd never seen sat next to me and we got into a talk. Again later the evening we were leaving together to the escape club. Was really a nice experience and it was much easier to handle the girls. No idea why.

Normaly this could work, because Wan Chai seems full of also lonely buisiness man and travelers.
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I travel lonely generally, but i am very open and eager to meet any random people. however i prefer to go with 2-4 friends together not more than. it would be more fun, being alone is sometimes bad.
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Reply #1 mickeyblue's post

If you wish to have a wingman, one option is to advertise your travel dates on the board, and ask if any punter is willing to join you for a beer. That's how I met my current wingman, with whom I've been traveling for the past 3 years.
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Mostly I travel alone. Some times with fellow photographers (1-2), but I'm the only punter in the group so I make my
own nightly trips then.

Open to meet fellow bro for a beer and exchange thoughts. Not a fan of big loud groups.

Next trip in early septmeber to Angeles City and Hainan / Haikou. Alone, so feel free to PM if your paths go the same
way.
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my dates are arround Aug. 10th to 17th. But i think its more wise to announce right before  that date again. If anyone knowing yet feel free to PM me .
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I like to monger alone coz i can move much swiftly w/o waiting for someone or get to think that someone may not like what i'm doin.
But of course it will be nice to have a wingman as energetic and full of excitement and enthusiasm like i am.
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having a wingman is great, although once im with my chick. I want him to piss of lol
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This remind me when i went to ktv once the chick are picked is everybody by themselves , but i guess going in group is also give you a sense of security if anything happen
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When going alone what do you first do once you enter the bar? do you approach the bar first and order a drink for yourself and then just stand around.
I've never been to a bar alone so it does seem a bit strange not knowing what to do when your alone.
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if you dont like mongering alone in bars and cant find anyone to go with, another option would be to do walkups
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I used to feel uncomfortable being alone in a restaurant or bar. In a normal restaurant I'd bring a book or a magazine to keep me company. But then one day I was like, fuck it. When I am at home alone I like to have a quiet drink and think. So why not sit and drink alone in public and think? So I started drinking in bars by myself, and found that I loved it. Even in civvie bars, being alone is like an excuse to meet new people. In a WG bar, it's pretty much an invitation.

At a place like wanchai, going in by myself, ordering a double of jack (always neat) and just finding a table to sit and watch the shenanigans can be as good as watching a movie. And when that get boring, ou can call over any girl Yu want and have a chat. Once I did it a couple times, it got damn near addicting.

I don't think I'll ever want a wingman.

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devilgodspeed   10-6-2012 23:01  Karma  +1   Being alone in a bar opens the opportunity of being approached by seekers.
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Thanks for the advise Intenseslacker, would definitely give that a go.  But ill missed the double JD out, as i could never drink that neat haha
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