I'm in HK next week. Looking to punt for the first time in HK...
Have browsed thru the forums.. learned lots! Kudos to the bros here.

Looking for any experienced bro's interested in meeting up for a few beers and a Wan Chai Punt, could use some help for sure, being a newbie!

Cheers!

I'll be in town next week. I am not close to being experienced in HK, though. (Original plan was to meet up with others, it got scotched, though. )

Good Luck!  i'm sure there will be lots of Filipinas there in Wan Chai waiting to entertain you.

very nice of you to extend the invite but I think that most of the regulars here who actually live in Hong Kong and partake in this unique hobby on a regular basis would prefer to remain anonymous to each other. Consequently I don't think you're going to have to many takers who are locals.

nice thought, however.

keep on mongering

I'm not sayin' you're unwise for such a policy, but I find it amusing that I've been to tons of meetups here in the States... where it's not even legal, unlike HK (and pretty much everywhere else in the world).

meeting people is not legal in the states ?

something like meetups with the KKK maybe ... but meetups on punting ???  

If I may - I'd like to C+P a post I put up on another thread which I hope you find pertinent:.
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Could I respectfully suggest to y'all - especially newbies and others who only post here quite rarely - that you would FIRST do your part to "share and care" by contributing your own reports, comments advise etc?

Give us all a chance to get to know you a bit more, before you come on here and invite pairing up with you!

Guys here usually post up reports, get involved in discussions, contribute knowledge and naturally gets up in the ranks; others read these contributions to the forum...and learn a bit about what to expect of the poster in real life and if he thinks that the poster is gonna be a "good guy" to meet, will then send PM's to arrange/agree to a meet-up etc.

The key is of course that one must establish one's own bona-fides before one would be approached by others - for lets face it, the internet - especially sex forums like ours - is populated with all sorts of people...not all nice guys!!

I myself tend to be quite careful with who I meet up with via the internet as I HAVE had the misfortune of having met up with a couple or so real misfits.  OTH - I HAVE also met some very fine gentlemen too.

Just a suggestion.
Thanks for reading!

SEAJ

It's nothing personal Bro but you can understand that although it's not literally "illegal" in HK to P4P with WGs... it's certainly not something any of us would like to shout about from the "rooftops". Especially as was mentioned Bros who are HK residents with families etc based in HK.

So a new member signs up, could be a good guy, we were all new once. Could be a jerk. Could be married, Could be single. Could be discrete, could be "in your face". As has already been suggested, and I whole heartedly agree... take some time to participate and contribute, let the 141 community get to know you. Make contributions based on your experience, if you have little or no experience make contributions based on your opinions, ideas, thoughts.

Do that first, then when you reach out to members for a meet up, you will find more Bros will respond.

It's nothing personal, good luck and if you get the chance, try a Mongolian.

[ Last edited by  TonyToro at 26-12-2011 19:34 ]

I inevitably monger alone in HK, as the majority of time I spend there is on business and nearly always travel alone.
It is the same for me in the UK though, only ever been out mongering with one buddy in the past, on several occasions though. Like other bros have stated, most I would assume see a need for discretion.  
But if you can find a like minded buddy it can be fun, and I would love to be able to enjoy some mongering time with other bros, not necessarily to just go out and score WGs, but for a laugh.
Though it is hard to begin a mutually good friendship immediately. I myself Know lots of people, who could be deemed as friends. Very few are ones I hang out with, and can really be myself with. And I could reduce that number to just two, who I would risk trusting with this little hobby of mine, if the situation arose.
There is possibly something in trying to hook up with bros on this site, as we already share the hobby.

Maybe there should be some secret 141 badge we can wear when out, or hand signal, so we can recognise a bro when out, and go have a chat?

Any suggestions?

Incidentally, maybe you bros can help me out. I have an upcoming trip to HK in January, which is not a problem.
However the trip after that, which is likely to be March/April, I have promised one of the guys in my office a trip out with me. He's in his thirties, and seems pretty loved up with his SO, and doubt I could reveal my extra activities to him. Soooo what do I do to get rid of him in the evenings, or the day/s I usually travel over to Macau?

I think if we really wanted to help bros out, we should set up some sort of crèche facilities, where a bro could drop off a colleague for a few hours or even days, so we can go about our business.
If anyone knows if such a place exists please advise, as I have a duty of care, and cannot just leave him to wander around a strange place without supervision.

[ Last edited by  travelpro at 27-12-2011 22:21 ]

Have him kidnapped.  

(Silent pause....)

What??  That going too far??

I should have thought of that!!

By all accounts, according to some posts I've read on this forum. If I take him across the boarder into China, and leave him alone for 10 - 15 minutes, he's gonna get kidnapped for sure!   

This site is the best for sound advice

Nice of you to call me a misfit.... Where's captaincaveman by the way - one of your meet-up buddies?

To OP:
Even if you couldn't meet up with bros here, wanchai has plenty of chatty guys sharing a common interest (I.e. Pussy), so you can still have lots of fun there.

You are treating your March trip with colleague as something you dread. You are viewing it from the wrong angle.

The March trip is a great opportunity to show your colleague (and company via his gossiping of the trip) how professional, valuable, and hardworking you were at the trip and the company is smart to send you more often on future trips. And to prevent the chance the company will send your colleague instead of you on future assignments, you can take your colleague to some of the rougher, dirtier, more local places of China to maximize the culture shock and discomforts to him.

Of course the ideal situation is to learn the guy is a secret yellow fever lover and is so curious to check out the local scene. Personal note: I think most guys who are into yellow-fever are idiots, but this can work out for you.

So one day you have to take this guy out to lkf first to make him extremely feverish for all those girls before closing the night at either Bar 109 or Players at Wanchai. While drinking together, you will have to maintain self-discipline and not go after any girls in his presence until he breakdowns first and leaves the bar with a wg and a smile.

Go out for a beer.   Then pretend your tired and just get back to the hotel. Once in our room, take a cigarette and go down. If hes there, you can smoke it, if hes not, then just run away and unleash the monger in you!   . I have tested that, works perfect.

Other option would be to go to a sauna where you know they can provide both and talk to the guy in charge when he is showering saying you want FS and your colleague is not a mongerer. If he is (see my question in the rant thread!) he'll hate you forever! In any case dont screw it up, your reputation in your work is more important than a one night punt! ;)

I've done the cigarette thing before, as I do travel on occasion with a colleague. In the past it has always been with one of the female ones (before you ask, no I wouldn't, not because she's not doable, but with work not a good idea! been there before with another and it was a close call)

With the girl that has been with me it was easy as she is really timid, and very unlikely to go out on her own once back at the hotel. Always booked her a room on a no smoking floor, so we would not cross paths in the corridor.
But it was always a bit nerve racking turning up at the hotel and getting in the lift, you never know!  

doghead:

I am planning on making it a hard trip anyway, as I always do if someone travels with me, and plan to do multiple stops over three countries over ten days. It's pretty much my choice if I choose to travel with someone, so not a problem for future trips, and it is OK to have someone tag along on occasion. And I told this guy I would take him, as he's been working hard lately, and has expressed an interest.
He's an OK kind of guy, and I think could be turned to the dark side. I think a sauna might be a good measure to gauge a reaction.

Probably won't do East in Macau though, as the blow job in the showers is a bit of a give away!!

Yes a macau sauna could be a great way to gauge a person's acceptance of the scene. All of the big macau saunas do provide veggie massages.

I remember once I only wanted to get a veggie massage in a macau sauna because I was really tired and sore. The manager kept coming over to confirm if I indeed only wanted a veggie massage. Between the 1st and 2nd coming over of the manager, I must have seen at least two lineups of girls for the other guys. Boy, I was sorely tempted to go for the full-works.

But I managed to stay disciplined and go for a veggie massage. You can do the same for your colleague.

Tell him that as a bonus for a long, tiring trip, you will take him to a macau sauna for a veggie massage. Hopefully after seeing all those lineups, his willpower will be weaker than mine and he will change his request for veggie to the full-works. Like most first-timers, he doesn't want to do it alone and will beg you to change your original request from veggie to full-works too. Of course he will have to badger you a few times until you reluctantly change your request to show your support.

I can do that!

I can even play along a little further, by telling him if it makes him feel better I will also partake in the services of one of these fine ladies.