Can the mods tell me why was he banned?

See my thread:

http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... &extra=page%3D1

I've read your thread, but why was he banned? It doesn't matter the length of banning time; a reason has to be given.

When the police arrest someone, they've got to tell him/her what the violation charge(s) are before any arrest takes place.

[ Last edited by  Payload at 31-12-2007 19:08 ]

Fair point Payload.....however you could argue that if youre arrested the policeman tells YOU why YOUVE been arrested, not everyone else

I agree 100% that a reason should be given for a banning. But Mods have always refused to give a reason so we have to
try to work it out ourselves. I think you can see the reason in the threads I quoted. Seems that hunter got pissed off with
happppy and banned him. Hunter can correct me on that if he wants.

But Mods are not just policemen - they're also judge and jury - but without the trial.  

Agree, in an arrest the charges are only read to you. However, this is a public forum, and for penalty to be imposed, I would prefer to see some kind of reasoning. (so we know what is to be expected)  And if we oppose to the reasoning, we should be allowed to say so in a civilized manner.

If that's true, then it's injustice and child like attitude.

It is just my personal opinion, but I think bro. hunter got pissed because he thought Cammy didn't exist. It is like if I was telling everyone how great "Kiko" is in Tokyo, but nobody can find/contact her when they come to Tokyo. We are free to post, but it is not nice to fool/hook other brothers. I think if a few HK brothers can meet/talk to Cammy and verify her existance, the problem is solved. (I hope)

Some gals don't wish to have their encounter broadcast on the forum. In which case there will not be any feedback on the thread by any bros.

1. Simply saying that happppy's thread is ficticious due to the lack of response on his threads are not proof.

2. Who is to say that given X amount of time is sufficient to conclude nobody else is interested in the topic he post. Certain topics need a longer time frame than others.

Happppy has been around in the Chinese forum for a long time and I can say his postings have been reliable and helpful. His topics may not agree with all but at least it's not all bland, facts and figures.

Does having extra powers affect certain people or does it reveal the true nature of the person?

[ Last edited by  moebee at 31-12-2007 23:38 ]

When people don't have to fear the consequence of their actions, think no one see them or have lost their inhibitions, I think we see their true nature. When you go in Korea, you cannot really be friend with guys until you got drunk with them as they think they have seen the real you. It's kinda blunt and not very refined, but I do like the simplicity and effectiveness of the approach. As for me, when drunk, I sleep :p

without reading Payload's post, I would have thought the same ;

Cammy is non existent

I too learnt that Ha4py is active in the Chinese forum; which makes me think;
Why make the post here? shouldn't he be posting it over there instead?

Does he has a hidden agenda? What does he hope to achieve or contribute by making the post?

Didn't you read any of his posting over in the Chinese forum to understand his character?

unfortunately no since I do not read Cantonese

can anyone confirm whether Ha4py made the same post to the Chinese section?

I believe there is a section of conversation between Happppy and Cammy on the Chinese side. I just glanced it, but I think it is there.

Even though his postings are in the Chinese section many are written in English.

maybe it's high time someone ask him why he decided to post Cammy's info here;

It was only recently that he started posting after a long lapse ..............................

and it is only reasonable for one to think; "What's his agenda?"
simply sharing the info or trying to promote his Sugar Daddy concept?
hmmmmmmmmmmm.............................................

Personally I have doubts about his true intentions;

I used to have a list of cc; I merely passed the list to those bros who comply with my requirements; for those bros who do not like my terms and conditions, they don't get the list; The privacy of those who are on my list are protected; I will never disclose their personal info to anyone and if ever there is a need, their written permission is required; Those on the mailing list contacts the girls directly and I am not interested in acting in a go between; In addition, I ask the girls whether they have any objections if I passed on their info; nickname, email, tel and photo; and those on the mailing list would get whatever info the girls provided. And I don't go asking whether those on my mailing list whether they have any progress or development with the girls.

and btw, the bros on my list still do not have an idea who's on the mailing list

Here is Happppy.

And I am happy to be Happppy again.

And I am happy to be able to express my thought and share my feeling here.

And I am happy you guys (moderators) now recognize I am not a liar... that this horny girl exist.

And I am happy you can ask me directly why I post here.

And I am happy to tell you that there is no hidden agenda.


I don't understand you bro legend sulasno, that you have reservation about me since you do not know me enough to respect my conduct here, so you have doubt... that is fine.   So may be you are very protective of this forum.. making sure all the bad guys are not able to do damage etc.

Once or twice I ask why you put up certain action (eg. double standard when deleting pic with 3 points - nipples and pussy hair..., and another time about contradiction to the topic chat - of any discussion...) and you basically are very proactive in forum affair here... may be you feel your responsibility being 'THE LEGEND' here or owning this space here... and so use your higher standard to judge... hidden agenda... I don't know and I don't understand...

All I am asserting is one thing.  I am genuine.  I said what I know and what I experience.  I don't play game... but obviously I did not make myself clear enough.

I know Chinese but I do not type in Chinese (too lazy to learn the input and really I left Hongkong at a young age and so my ability to express in that language is really limit)...

So I use English in the Chinese section... and so I survive for some times... and you can imagine, people complain... some don't understand English and some don't like me not using Chinese...

So I spent some of my time there and some here... increasing here but I am not entirely comfortable with the standards etc...

Now... my intention...

I live in the State and just enjoy this forum and the subject of sex.

I have my sharing of my Hongkong and oversea mongering experience and I have made many friend over the last two and a half years here.....

My intention is to share and to enjoy other bro's sharing.  For example I think the discussion of DATY is very interesting....

I post 'the horny local girl' because she came to my blog and stalk me (I love being stalked) and we talked dirty for about a week or two weeks and then I told myself what if she is not who she say she is.... have you have such experience?

So I think of this sharing idea and open a thread here hoping I can get help to find out if she is real.

The rest is history.

There are a lot of interests and I have actually get brother to meet with her and screw her.  She was happy to be screwed... amazing, isn't it?

In the middle of it, the process slow down because her period came and she is not available and then she found out about this forum and was mad.

Bro sulasno, you really have to follow all the details to know that this is all real and not make up by me...  She has been here and she has voiced out.

Bro hunter is the one that was really mad at me because he misunderstood my question to him.

In a way I was protecting the horny girl because I am sending men from this forum to her, introducing them to her as if they are my friend... and I have to be careful and discreet.

The 3 brother so far who met her trusted me with some of their personal information like where they are from, how tall they are, what nationality, experience etc,.... and it all went well..

I must say it one and for all.

There is no hidden agenda.  Period.

You have the right not to believe.  But unless I break a rule, I should be allowed to continue to share my experience and seek help with people who have trust on me.

I felt violated when someone like you doubt about me and then go ahead to attack me and my action here.