Obviously, I'm new here, so forgive me if I missed something particularly relevant (I read the FAQ, and did some searching before posting, I promise!).

Basically, I'm a bisexual girl (22) who's interested in planning a trip with the primary goal being to have sex with as many hot girls as possible. Sightseeing would be expected, but only a secondary goal. I have a boyfriend, and, as would be expected, he's thrilled with the idea.   Although he knows some Korean, we both speak primarily English.

I'm curious as to how we would go about finding girls who would be okay with having the two of us. I am NOT only interested in only watching him fuck her! This doesn't bother me, but I want to get my fair share of her too!
I'm looking for full blown girl on girl action, and anything less would be a deal breaker. To clarify: There should not be a problem with my mouth on her pussy, and preferably no problem with hers on mine.

I did see some thread with guys asking similar questions, but there seemed to be an abundance of "dude, your gf is going to dump you for it" answers. I'm hoping that I won't be subjected to the same. ;)

Thanks in advance!

your best chance would be to go to the girly bars like Neptunes, amazonia and traffik.

Even then, it's going to be very difficult. Though they exist, they are such a rarity, and most will only do it with someone they are know and are comfortable with.

This is very discouraging... Does anyone know if this is a cultural issue that might be less of a problem to some races than others?

a friend of mine and his missus are into the same scene and as i know they meet their potential partners in wanchai disco places such as Neptunes etc,,,  just go down there have some fun and chat around, you never know what might occur.  best of luck xoxo

Sounds like your boyfriend is a lucky guy having you willing to share him with another girl....

I would say as other membrs of forum have suggested, that your best bet is to hit some of the bars like Harri's on Golden Mile, or Neptunes, Traffick etc and see which girls you can talk to there, see how the chemistry is, and how far they're willing to go

Of course you could end up with a girl who talks the talk in the bar, but might not be as willing in a hotel room to interact but i think you'd have the best chance by hitting the bars...

good luck and keep us posted

Eh, at this point I'm just glad to be with someone who's willing to share ME with another girl.

So, I'm assuming you guys are talking about "bargirls"? I'm not really sure what picking up this type of girl would entail.
If it's up to us/me to approach the gals, how do we identify WGs from the other girls in the bar? There are other girls, right...?

If it's not up to us to approach, that raises several other, questions, some of which I'm sure are answered elsewhere...
1. Isn't that solicitation, and isn't solicitation illegal in HK? <--- Yes, I know, total n00b question...
2. How would we behave to make ourselves seem approachable/in the market?

Also, how is price discussed with this type of girl?

Also, I was wondering, are "punters" (can chicks qualify as punters?) typically allowed to perform oral sex on a girl? If so, is it common to use a protective barrier of some sort (i.e. plastic wrap)? I'm vaguely worried about the putting-something-in-my-mouth-that-I-don't-know-where-has-been factor, but at the same time it seems like a barrier would defeat the entire point.

in the Wan Chai bars etc, there are a proliferation of both regular party girls and working girls

A lot of the time, you'll be able to tell rom the way they behave, chat with you

My suggestion would be th see how the conversation goes, if they make it apparant they're working girls.....if you're not sure, and things are sparking well, lead the conversation in the direction of what you'd like to do..and see if that has them mention a price etc...you never know you might meet the one in a few hundred girls, who are out to party and just for fun, no monetary exchange needed...

With regards to dental dams etc, if you're worried maybe you should pick up your own supply of proper dams or protective plastic etc before you go

With regards to interaction with the girl, make sure they know thats what you're expecting..not just to observe etc, that you intend it to be an active three way game

I can tell you from experience this isn't hard to achieve. My g/f was interested in a similar situation. The solution was to go to one if the WG bars in Wan Chai. The girls are much more receptive if you do the talking (as opposed to your b/f). Odds are the first girl you speak to won't be into the idea but, probably due yo the novelty, they will help you find a friend who is. Just be completely clear on your expectation.

In my experience they would have no issue with performing oral on you or visa versa however will insist on a change of condom if your b/f changes from you to the girl or from her to you - so would suggest you bring a large supply.

To answer your other questions, I have never heard of anyone finding themselves on the wrong side of the law picking up one of these girls. Doubly safe in your situation as your b/f would be the one accused and he is with his g/f so the situation would probably look ridiculous if the law got involved.

In terms of price I would expect between $1-2k for a session depending on quality ofthe girl. You may have to pay more if you are with her for more than 1-2 hours. There are many other factors such as time of night, night of the week etc.

OK - lets set the parameters.

Firstly, this is primarily a Pay for Play board and as such, I believe that our replies/observations are going to be slanted towards such P4P action.

Also worthy to note that if its non P4P action you're after - well I would think that you'd probably be better off in more "liberal minded" societies than in Hong Kong or Asia (in regards to just general social mores and societal behaviour - NOT the p4p action). Even just back in the States but on the East or West coasts!

I'm not sure what you know about the P4P action OUTSIDE of the U.S., but second point you need to understand is that such activities are generally VERY WELL tolerated and practised quite easily in most of Asia and USUALLY entails very little danger -whether from the LE or from nefarious parties.

OK - having said that, I would offer you the opinion that as long as you're willing to pay, then just about ANY action you want is going to be available to you.  Asia is like going to a restaurant and you've got a very full menu from which to choose from.  And if a particular "item" is not available on the menu - then somebody is going to come up with "the goods" someway, somehow;  that is pretty well guaranteed.

So perhaps you can re-start the discussion with what is it that you require, what are you willing to pay, and where are you thinking of going to in Asia.  Hong Kong is generally a lot pricier than other locales and with it being a "premium" market, the choices are a bit limited when it comes to "special menu items" - for the providers here do NOT need to provide such and still do very well thank you very much.

Tally Ho!!

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 26-1-2011 15:50 ]

One place I'd stay away from would be China. The 3somes I've had there with the WG's have always been very disappointing where the two girls refuse to look at each others nude bodies, let alone touch their pussy or titties.

Hey there Chaotic,

I can assure you it will be easier than you think!  As I have met a few bi-girls in the bars.

Go to NeptuneII, Escape, or Traffic.  The working girls are bloody easy to spot - maybe seperate from your boyfriend and ask him to make eye-contact with a few you fancy.   The WGs will go to him.

Now you join them at the table - but quickly put her to ease that you are there (as she will freak out thinking you are about to punch her for hitting on your boyfriend!).  Buy her a drink.  If she is friendly and you hit it off - cool!  Use this girl as your local-info-resource.  These girls know each other, and us punters often take 2 girls back to a room at once - so many know which ones will do full "bi" action and which ones wont.  The girl you happen to be with might not be into Bi-action, but ask her to help you find some - and keep the drinks flowing to show your goodwill.  Give her your phone number to SMS you with info if she doesnt have immediate info.  Stay in touch with her the next day.  (she may have forgotten all about you by the next hung-over morning).

Try this with a few girls your first nite and I am sure within 48 hours you will have a choice of bi-girls to try.  Expect to pay around $1,500HK for a session.

I myself know two bi-girls in the HK - without trying to find them at all!  One is super-sexy and I had a great 3-some with her and er freind (wow!) - but sadly she is currently back home in the Philipines.  The second is just not attractive at all so I wouldnt push her your way (and frankly I havent seen her for a while, so maybe she is gone too).

Good luck...

Wander

if you're exploring Asia for the first time and are planning on spending awhile, u will likely have more luck in yr stated goals in the major cities of Thailand than here in Hong Kong.

i know, Thailand, cliche, right? but, Hong Kong is a crowded busy city where space is extremely expensive and people are pressed for time. neither of which u need on a vacation. also, we're about to head into the Chinese New Year period where transport/lodging etc are problematic for weeks on end. it's also a bit chilly now, although coming from the States, u won't notice it as much.

the thing about cities like Bangkok and Pattaya is that they have cheap real estate, reasonable hotels, great food, and the nightlife is likely more suited to yr stated purposes. as a couple, u can sit it go-go bars and examine DOZENS of girls for the price of a drink (not a US-strip-club-price, but a few dollars). as a couple, girls won't home in on u quite as quickly as they would men. it's a good idea to check the talent and take your time--after all, YOU are calling the shots here. i suggest u view the first strip club or two as recon-operations only--even if u see The Girl, u can always come back later. also, the atmosphere can be intoxicating so i'd recommend one or both of u stay relatively sober--if you do drink, alternate with soft drinks or sip slowly the first time. once u learn the ropes (won't take long), things become easier. yes: u are offering compensation for services rendered, but you pay for a spa or a good massage, right? same thing, just a bit more personal.

IMO, Bangkok and Pattaya are much more open in terms of these liaisons. if u really want a girl that is into other girls, u can wave over the mamasan (if she's not already hovering), and SPECIFY what you want. there is no need to be shy--if you feel intimidated, don't worry, just go ahead and tell her what yr looking for. many working-girls will do 3-somes and do what u request, but it's an act for them, they don't mind, but they're not really into other girls (there are shows in Pattaya that are full-on lesbian shows, and if any of the performers float yr boat, buy them a drink and have a chat). yes, u can admire girls at work without any commitment other than a drink of two (DON'T buy drinks for ladies unless they're serious prospects and you want to speak with them).

they have HEARD IT ALL BEFORE, trust me. some have DONE it all before. but in any case, spell out in clear terms what you expect. if she seems hesitant, ask her if she's OK with ALL of it. if not, there are other girls, and other bars. if she seems nice but doesn't seem comfortable 69'ing u, u can always ask if she has a friend in the bar who's more girl-minded. it's good to arrange a signal with yr BF so that if he *really* isn't interested in a gal for any reason, he can let you know in a discreet way.

Thailand also significantly cheaper. u might find yr dream date at Neptune's, i don't know cuz i've never been there--most of the previous advice steers u towards the Wanchai bars, which makes sense given the nature of yr mission. the spectrum of HK P4P i frequent is geared towards the single male, and it suits me fine. but even at 30 baht/US$, Thailand is cheaper. yes, there are traveler-scams and you should read up on those, and check local prices for the action you're seeking, but for P4P of the type you seek, i reckon you'll have more fun in Bangkok or PTY. there is even a club in BKK where there's a two-girl minimum, 90-minute session, nonstop...that wd be a 3-on-1 for yr BF but i guarantee you'll never forget it. ever had TWO girls ministrate to yr needs simultaneous?

anyway, good luck. much depends on yr schedule/budget etc, but u seem to have no problem being frank about your desires on this board, and that's GOOD. as SEAJ pointed out, Asia is not as hung-up as the USA on fun-oriented services, as u will find out! if u can afford it, try Wanchai AND visit Thailand. trip reports always welcome here!

JtB

PS: chicks can definitely be punters, i've known a few. with a BF is fine--u just need to specify that u intend to be PART OF THE ACTION. as far as hygiene, you'll find that Asian women are generally quite clean: showers beforehand are standard for all parties, hotels often provide multiple toothbrushes, condoms are also provided but you may want to bring your favorite and they are typically changed between every use, so buy 'em by the dozen. always better to have too many than to run out. dental dams are not common, not that i've ever used one. someone posted this excellent URL earlier so i refer u to it: http://www.sfcityclinic.org/stdbasics/stdchart.asp

the acronym "DATY" stands for "dining at the 'y'", a rather silly term for using one's tongue to perk a lady's interest in that special spot. many of us do it, and i personally have never suffered any ill effects from this activity, quite the reverse. that said, it is good to take some time and get to know your date for the evening. smiling and laughing, sharing jokes and having fun is the BEST way to do this. once u establish a bit of rapport, u can likely shower with the gal and soap the fun bits yourself. many Asian showers have handheld showerheads and you can have fun with those too! hopefully your BF won't mind if u two ladies spend 20-30 minutes in the shower.

what else...i know long fingernails are fashionable, but for certain purposes, having them cut short is best-practice. just be gentle, u know what u like, but not all women are exactly the same. start with the basics and follow her lead. if she does something u don't care for, let her know...subtly if possible.

i dunno, maybe all of this is second nature to u, but Asian sexual culture is about fun and sensuality, a light touch and humor is the way to go. she should know what's expected of her, and compensation, before u agree to take her to yr hotel. tips are appreciated, but dependent on service. never forget: YOU call the shots, and a previous poster mentioned that the female of the duo shd do the talking/negotiating, absolutely right. women who are into women aren't going to want to negotiate with yr BF. many will think that a couple on the prowl are seeking to fulfill the guy's fantasy, as yr doubtless aware.

and, go ahead and post any other queries. please don't worry about "nOOb questions": we were ALL newbies once, we have all had those first-time-jitters (sometimes more than once ).

[ Last edited by  JackTheBat at 26-1-2011 23:06 ]

I am still convinced she could find a girl willing to do true "bi" fairly quickly.  

I know better now, but early on in exploring Wan Chai I was surprised how much these girls share with each other.  I've brought back 2 girls (even 3 girls a few times to keep the party going) and though usually they don't do "bi" (ie: I screw one girl, then the other) I typically ask them about it during the after-sex chat.  They usually know of some girl in town who is into it, and I have been lucky enough to have found 1 sexy bi girl myself.  Had a few really cool threesomes with her.

So, I figure the idea of hooking up with a few WGs the first nite and asking them should lead to results.

To add my two cents worth I've never had an issue either in HK or Pattaya when my otherhalf does the negotiations. It has never taken more than an half an hour or so yo find the right girl (ie one we both like the look of and is also up for g on g action).

In fact, in the go go bars in Pattaya the girls seemed to find the whole idea very interesting and my other half was getting far more of the attention. Maybe they feel safer if there is another woman there?

hmmm, we seem to have scared the OP away!  Too much information?

Please do write up a report of your sucess  / failure. Im sure there are a few keep people to out here to see how you went!

I be interested in you experience, please post an update.

If you are ever going to be in my area let me know. I can hook you up with a very safe and fun all female orgy where its all you can eat. BF can go and watch if he'd like.