Subject: Taking a WG to dinner before festivities?
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Taking a WG to dinner before festivities?

Has anyone taken a WG to dinner before commencing in the usual festivities?  I was thinking it would be good to sit down and talk with someone and get to know them a bit before heading back to the hotel.

Has anyone done this before?  What kind of costs are typically involved.
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If all you want is a shag, why waste time and money?
In my experience, the difference between 'a shag' and ? whatever? is what happens before-hand.  

But we are all different  And apparently, the girls are all different (I don't know - I've not tried them all yet...)

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Reply #1 blakerighter's post

I prefer to shag em first, then eat. Then shag again...then sleep. Then goodbye!!

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From a practical matter, i think you need to find out from manager if there will be an extra charge b/c you'll be taking her out of the work rotation for probably 2 sessions.  Unless you eat at McDonalds and finish up in room really fast...
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Yeah...guess you could get away with McDonalds since you're paying her to be there.  Wouldn't dare try that on a real date.
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Originally posted by hunter at 21-7-2011 00:02
I prefer to shag em first, then eat. Then shag again...then sleep. Then goodbye!!

I suppose if I did want to eat I could just find a girl who was cool with DATY?  LMAO.
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Reply #1 blakerighter's post

i do that mostly with KTV girls.
but it's not to get to know the girl.
it's just to fill up my stomach...

in your case, it depends on what type of WG you are with.
for walk-ups / HGs, i think you can't just call up the WG and say "hey, let's grab some sandwich."
u can do try buying some food when before u go up to the 141 flat or hotel, it can definitely help to break the ice.
once you are a regular customer of the WG, then you can invite them out for a candlelight dinner.

if you are hitting on bar girls, you can bring them out for supper first.
except for the cost of the supper, i think no extra costs will be incurred.




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Post at 21-7-2011 02:08  Profile P.M. 
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That's exactly the info I was looking for.
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Post at 21-7-2011 03:29  Profile P.M. 
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pretty common sense. time is money.  you are paying for opportunity cost that is lost spending time talking about world affairs in a casual dinner setting   . best bet is ktv or a bar to slowly build repoire.
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Reply #1 blakerighter's post

Not before, but I have had dinner with ladies in the States after the dirty deed.  Usually this is not at all a bad thing since most WGs are very nice people if you get a chance to know them outside the working environment.  My thinking has always been, try to create a positive air between us, then if she remembers the nice dinner,  the service will be even better the next time.




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Post at 22-7-2011 13:43  Profile P.M. 
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I wouldn't waste too much money on going to dinner with her, it will cost much more as it is stated above, You will probably take her out longer then 1 session.
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Reply #11 bentley007's post

I've done the dinner thing once with a girl in Singapore. Met her at Orchard Tower one night. I called her two nights afterwards to see if she wanted to hook up and she said yes. She proposed to go to Orchard tower again, but I just wanted to chat and fuck, so ended up eating at my hotel, which was at the Intercontinental. Not wanting to be cheap, we ended up going to the Japanese restaurant and dropped almost SGD200 on dinner!

Overall it was a bad choice to do the dinner route, as it felt way too much like a date, and by the end of the night I started actually liking the girl. Never a good thing when you're dealing with professionals.
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Post at 22-7-2011 19:57  Profile P.M. 
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I have gone to dinner a couple of times when it involved an overnight.  One of these was a repeat a few times with the same girl so was a more intimate and g/f type experience.
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Post at 23-7-2011 14:27  Profile P.M. 
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Yes. Without paying extra (aside from dinner). Both before and after. I certainly don't expect the extra time, though. It's very much of a play-by-ear thing.
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Reply #13 ollie1955's post

Did you find the talk at dinner awkward? I found myself asking the same questions I would ask a girl I'd take on a date, but the benefit is, I know that I'm banging her at the end of the night so it doesn't matter if I'm rude or not!
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I would like to question, isn't it harder to have a full on sex experience on a full stomach.  I def dislike any encounter with a full tummy
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the OP just wants to take GFE to the next level
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Reply #16 sirtiger's post

personal experience: yes, i can't perform at full mast with full stomach... rather crawl under the doona and sleep...
otherwise would cause, stitch or even worse, barf!!!
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Reply #1 blakerighter's post

What you're looking for is a full Escort.  

Better not bro, you might find your bubble burst ... that hot fantasy chick who's pouring out of her clothes might turn out to be shallow and have views that turn you off ...

Much better to do the deed and then take her out if there's chemistry.  Even a bar girl, who would like to believe she's good enough to attract a real gentleman, will be OK with that.




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Reply #16 sirtiger's post

Good point! That's why you should stay away from carb filled dinners. Stick to proteins.
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