yeah i understand your concern. BBS joints can be quite intimidating for the uninitiated.
however, it can also prove to be quite an enjoyable experience
aggressive MMs are
usually part of the whole experience but just maintain your cool and smile, but be firm when
you reject their offer.
a 1 shot deal makes sense if you are a newbie or unfamiliar with how things work. yes, there
are dangers associated with BBS joints but really, exercise common sense like doing it in a
short-time hotel (never do the deed on-site if available or follow the girls to their 'own
aparments') and if you are doing overnite, remember to lock up your valuables in the room
safe.
things like that minimise any possible unpleasantries. simple precautions go a long way bro