Name: N/A
Date & Time of Session:  25th January 2019
Location:  Fuji Building, Causeway Bay
Nationality and Language: Local, Cantonese and Mandarin
Age: Early 30s maybe
Face:  3/5
Body:  3/5
Skill: 0/5
Service: 0/5
GFE: 0/5
Regret: $500/20 mins
Repeat: Never

Before I write anything else, there is two important information that needs to be said. First, I’m generally an awkward person. It is difficult for me to start conversation with a lot people especially if they are complete strangers. Second, I have only learned about the mongering community in Hong Kong for less than a month. This was my first experience with paying for sex...actually this is was my first experience with sex in general. So with this cleared up, my experience might differ from yours completely.

After learning about the Fuji Building I thought to myself that it seems like an great idea to check it out since I am always horny and have been dying to have sex for the longest time. So I make my way to the building around 2:30 pm. I was extremely nervous, but excited to what was to come. I wasn’t too sure of what to do when I entered the building. However, I read a lot of reports on this site so I was somewhat confident with my ability to adapt to the situation (TL;DR I was not). My first mistake, I make my way to the top floor using the elevator and started walking around the building moving from floor to floor without interacting with anyone. This goes on for nearly 20 minutes and I was getting pretty tired at that point. I finally worked up a bit of courage and started to ring the bells on multiple of the doors, most which I decline by politely bowing and backing away. Goes on for another 20 minutes until I basically mentally forced myself to just ask for the price and then agreeing come in if it is 500 HKD or lower. Another 10 or so minutes later, I finally found someone who on what I believed was the 6th floor, but I don’t remember.

I asked for the price and she replied with 500 HKD. At that point I was like fuck it, just agree and get it over with. My second mistake, all I asked was for the price but I never asked what she was willing to do and how long will we be at it (which I assumed was 30 minutes based on reports on this site). I was extremely tired at that point because I had been walking up and down the stairs for nearly an hour and just sat down on her bed when she pointed to it. She started instantly stripping and I just followed along. She asked if I wanted a shower and I said yes since I was really sweaty. We hopped into the shower together and she started washing my body. It was getting awkward as she didn’t say anything else and I was getting a bit nervous. That was when I made what I think, now that I am looking back on it, was my third mistake. I admitted that it was my first time doing this sort of thing hoping that she would understand and guide me along that process or at the very least start a conversation. She was silent for a little bit then explains that her rates are 500 HKD for 20 minutes and an additional 100 HKD for another 10 minutes. She went to being silent after that. A little confused, I just stood there awkwardly as she turns off the shower. She hands me a towel and I dry myself off. As I walk outside of the shower, she directs me to lay down on the bed.

As I lay there on her bed, she gets on top of me and started to catlick from my nipple to my stomach area, but I was not really feeling anything from it. She then proceeds to give me a CBJ which to be honest, was what I was most excited about since I have a bit of a BJ fetish. However, my first experience with a BJ was nothing but a disappointment as it felt like if I just wore a condom and flick it back and forth with my fingers a couple times. This goes on for another minute or two and she tells me to get up to prepare for mish. This was a little bit of a shock to me because I thought we would start with CG first, but I just agreed anyways. At this point, I was having trouble getting my LB hard. It was semi-hard so I was still able to do the deed and I thought if I was to stick my LB in her and started moving then I would eventually get hard and be able to finish anyways.

I would first like to clarify that my penis is not huge but also not small. It’s just barely below the average length of males and above the average girth. However, when I stick it in her, I felt nothing. It was maybe because I wasn’t hard enough or maybe the condom was too thick. But it felt like I was penetrating a loose blanket. Wasn’t too sure what to say in this situation, I just rock my hips back and forth hoping it would do something. Less than minute later, she stares at me in disbelief and says that I have gone limp. I pull out immediately and looked down. There was my fully limped LB still wrapped in the condom. Embarrassed and not knowing what to do, I just said sorry. She just silently takes off the condom and told me to lay be back down on the bed and told me to relax. She pour some lube in her hand and started giving me a HJ. After maybe minute, I started to get a little hard. She tells me to stay laying down and gets new condom began CG. She starts to move and I was trying to stay relax. My LB gradually gets harder, but not even a minute goes by and she tells me that it is my turn. We get back into mish but as same as before, I still felt nothing and began to be turned off. After another minute or two, she stares at me and tells me that I have gone limp again.

At this point I was getting a bit disappointed at myself having to fail twice. Not knowing what to do next, I started questioning my decision to even do this, but then she turns to me and tells me that 20 minutes have goes by which I didn’t know if it had actually gone by since there was no timer and I wasn’t paying attention to the clock. To be completely honest, I was slightly relieved thinking that it was finally over. I paid the 500 HKD and I quickly put all my clothes back on when she was taking a shower. After she told me it was safe to leave, I said thank you and sorry and rushed out of the building.

Three hours after that experience, I have finished writing this report. I feel like I have failed, scammed, and regretful all at once. Since this was my first experience with sex, I have nothing to compare it with. However, I can most definitely say it was not what I had imagined it to be and will be a regret that would live on with me for at least the next decade. I don’t think I will be willing to pay for sex anything soon.

Things to note: We were both completely silent when we were doing either mish or CG.

Congratulations for making the effort to cross the line and lose your virginity.

Don't be so hard on yourself if your 1st time didn't meet your expectation. Most ppl's 1st time was a 'bleh'.

If you decide to try the non-civi sex route again, I would suggest you try those activities that come the closest to being with a civi-girl experience, ie allowing the two of you to banter, flirt, and drink together in a mutual seduction...then proceeding to you inviting her to stay overnight in a hotel/or your place where you will have a lot of time to continue the flirting and slow exploration of each other's bodies...before proceeding almost organically into full-on sex then finally to the post-sex cuddle.

Those activities that fit the bill would be going to the wanchai red light bars or going to a hostess - ktv in macau and china. These activities take place in environments that are non-judgemental. You will feel so much more comfortable than in a walk-up. Even if you don't proceed to sex on the first several visits, you will still have a great time becoming very competent with socializing with beautiful women...which does incredible wonders to your self-confidence. I know it is tough to believe, many bros don't always go for the post bar/ktv sex session; they just went to have a good drinking fun with some fun girls.

There are so many stories from inexperienced bros in this forum about how they 'scored' after going to those places. I don't remember a specific ones, but they are in the forum.

Just remember when you are in this 'learning' phase of visiting wgs, you are not experiencing 'scams' (negative perspective) but 'educational lessons of life' (positive perspective).

Good luck and keep us informed of your journey.

Hi Savgo.

Thanks for the great report. It's really useful when bros report not-so-good experiences, as it gives others a chance to ponder...

Dog gives some helpful advice. However, you do say you have difficulty with conversations, so the bars he suggests may seem a little overwhelming. But perhaps you could go with a friend..

If you want to try walkup again, I  would suggest  a slightly different pproach, which, please bear in mind, is what works for me to  be relaxed and have a good time. Do bear in mind I'm not so young, and most of the girls I'm referring to below will be at least in their 30s. But that does mean that they are good at what they do, which I think would be a good option to build up your confidence.

1. Make a list of girls (and rooms) in a building who look like they are experienced and have been around for a while (the ones with speech bubble on the adverts). A list is useful since chances are that many be busy. And you don't want to be fiddling with your phone to work out where to go next...
I like Phoenix  http://go141.com/en/region-20-bu ... -Phoenix-Apt.-.html personally. Many experienced girls.
Look, particularly for those who have a bit of English in their blogs. They may not speak much, but at least they are making an effort...

2. Don't pick one of pornstarexperience (PSE) girls (such as Sammi) at this point. They can be a blast, but I think you probably need someone who will pamper you gently and slowly. You can find some of my recent experiences at Phoenix by searching. If you're comfortable with an older woman then I'd recommend Joanna on level 3. I recall telling her  I wanted a gentle BJ and sex, and we had a nice chat about how some girls are too rushed and/or too rough. I think if you told her you were relatively new to this, you'd get a very caring response and extra care. Her massage was professional level. I also really liked Yoyo on level 3, who is younger, but her English was not great, and her advert is not up at the moment [and there is a different Yoyo on level 5 at the moment who I know nothing about]. Of course,  there are others who I did or didn't try...

2. If possible, go mid afternoon, when it's reasonably quiet.

3. Don't be afraid to walk away - just be nice about it ("Sorry, wrong room - fumbles with notebook).

4. When you find someone you like, pick a session that includes massage (often DUP on the advert,  but the menu inside may be different). This gives you a chance to feel comfortable with being touched, and, besides, a massage is great in itself if the girl is good at it. I'd expect to pay about 800 for massage (DUP) and sex ("wholepackage") for 45 minutes to an hour.

5. Above all, just relax. The experienced girls know what they are doing, and how to press your buttons. Sometimes  better than you do...

6. Finally, I have learned, from long, and sometimes bitter, experience, that the time of the actual sex doesn't need to be long for it to be awesome. If I try to go on too long, with too many positions it's easy for me to become desensitized, and then I have to work hard on cumming, which is actually less satisfying...  My ideal session is 60 minutes with shower,  massage, with some teasing towards the end, then slow cowgirl where the girl really gets turned on (doesn't always happen, but certainly does with some, particularly ones I've seen before), then missionary, where I can control the pace and where it's natural to stay in for a time after cumming. After that,  it's great to just lie with her for 5 or 10 minutes. The  penetrative sex part is probably less than minutes out of the 45-60 total, but it's really satisfying...

Good Luck!

I Agree with all the bros up there. I guess you are living on a conservative environment the whole life and girl sex is the first time. Nothing wrong with a few activities that makes you happy.

Remember that:-

1. Sometimes a real vagina is nothing like our own palm. (it is true!) But there are vaginas that felt nothing like other vaginas and better than our own palms. THAT fantastic vaginas are something that you will meet in life ... but our ways of saying on internet is "tight".... we need to be more descriptive sometimes, haha)

2. good fit vaginas (on an ugly girl, depends on your tastes) are actually preferable than a loose fit vagina on a pretty girl. (perhaps that explains why some men are willing to stick with only one ugly woman all their lives, and a divorce is like a hell experience.)

3. Sometimes our own palms are our best SO (sometimes. yes, admit it. but not all the time.)

4. If you find someone very pretty and get excited and climax easily (that's ok, admit that to a pro), tell the Pros you have this problem and ask for a possible 2nd Q AHEAD of the session ... she will usually understand and add a smaller premium on the 2nd Q if the first Q is not hurting her and doesn't take too long. This also works for your future girlfriends and wives that you might cum within 30 seconds.

5. Alternatively, a very excited vagina will expand itself (you can see that at the vagina level, Labia minora swollen and the vaginal opening swollen ) . A swollen vagina usually will be a tight vagina. but you need to get her aroused and excited. Sometimes a Pro can be aroused too (or I think she forced herself to do that). A gf or wife at home - you can do that with 15 minutes of foreplay. With A pro you might be able to do when she start working in the morning, but she might be too tired if you are the end of her shift.

6. If you find the vagina too loose, don't worry the Pro will understand. (she probably feels it too). Tell her if there's alternative ways to have sex (e.g. Cow Girl on top, some more blow jobs, etc). Its perfectly normal. Pros are there to serve you.

7. If you feel a bit tired and your dick start getting tired or hurting from the movement, tell her to stop and give everyone a break. Sometimes a small naked hug for 5 minutes is also good. (yes, this is the old man style) You don't need to cum every time even though you spent your money. Her job is to make YOU happy, and You are not expected to make her happy and a Pro rarely get climax unless she is very very comfortable with you. That is not expected usually and fine by her. (she needs to watch over her phone, her CCTV, your fees, changes, towels, noises, police visits, badasses customers ringings the bell, the rent payment at the end of the month/the week ... you are probably not her priority but she needs to watch for you too. imagine that)

8. Remember it is mutual - Oriental girls usually have a shorter vagina - and there is no need to penetrate all the way. The Gland / the Head is more important. Conversely, western girls may looks as if they have larger vagina but often they have a deeper vagina and sometimes larger vulva. It doesn't mean she has a loose vaginal opening. Girls with shallower eye sockets usually have shorter vagina, and girls with deep eye sockets usually have longer vagina. Seems like a rule to me. A long dick might hurt a pro is she is not excited - that's what she claims, and what is an oversized is sometimes referring the grit of the shaft. However, imagine that's where a baby's head coming out, a vagina is fantastically elastic. No matter what, we are usually sympathetic to girls who's only way of living is through her vagina with different men all day. Give her a break if she says it hurts; she usually means it.

9. We are not porn stars. We don't need to perform like one. If quick cyclical in and out are your turns on then by all meals. You can try other things. But not necessary - if you feel good by one position only, keep it till cum. We all do that sometimes.

10. MUST READ: Keep everything CLEAN AND SAFE. Can't repeat more on this. Don't kiss anyone that's not your gfs or your wife. Don't kiss the Pros. Don't drink their fluid. Don't drink their milk. Not all pros are aware of hygiene and you don't know what diseases they are carrying (venereal, sexual, warts, herpes, OR even something like a common flu are spreading around these days). Clean and wash your bro down there - and cut your pubic hair short if they are longer than reaching your foreskin. I found my own pubic hair is one of the major way carrying "dirts" around. scary.

11. If you find any discomforts - swollen red heads, small whiteheads, "pimples", rashes, unusual fluid (those not your usual semen), smelling stink or foul smell ... go and visit a doctor right away. Younger doctors understand that this habit is quite common as a "social disease" - the private clinics around the corners will do. Modern Doctors shouldn't and don't put moral judgement on punters nowadays and they are more scared of you to complain them then ever before. Don't visit the govt clinic although they are free of charge. They would usually nag you out of "bad habits". of course that depends on your budgets. I usually pay for a test first (reports come within 1 week or shorter) then ask for the medication. follow the doctor's order. Although the cases are usually "urinary track infection".

12. I don't like sex in cheap Sauna anymore because it is small restricted with no room and no choice of girls, and you need to rush. And in cheap ones you can't do too man things. Also I bring my own Towels (2 at least) instead of using the girls' own. Plus I use a pack condoms even in a hand job. (don't laugh)(both condoms and towels can be bought quickly at Watson's or Manning). That surely keeps things clean somewhat and fewer things to see doctors afterwards. Well, if we sond $600 on a punt, why not pay for $100 or more for towels and condoms and protect yourself more. No one loves your body than yourself. haha. that's so true. Plus if money can solve our problems, why not pay it while we still can afford the money?

Hi Savgo,
I don't know how old you are, but I suspect you're still pretty young. Many of us have been through our own similar experiences in many different variations. Like you, I am shy by nature. I'm not the brightest spark in social situations. I felt inhibited with girls and was desperate for sex as a teen. My first experience was a disaster and I was sure I'd contacted some kind of venereal disease. (I hadn't). Even beyond that I was a slow starter and, feeling my way forwards, not everything turned out to be as fantastic as I imagined it should be.
It's a journey so accept that the first steps didn't go too well. It will get better. Even as a middle aged guy now, I was still incredibly nervous to go first my first happy end massage in HK. And too inhibited to talk to girls in Wanchai bars, thinking they'd either fleece me or hold me in contempt if I didn't want to pay their price and take them home.
So lick your wounds. Take it slowly. Maybe go for a massage and let yourself be pampered, teased and seduced into a very happy ending. It's a passive experience and can get you used to such situations. Then perhaps find someone you can talk to first and say you are inexperienced and want to learn. WGs just want the money. They don't expect you to perform and satisfy them. Maybe you'll find one who likes the challenge to take it slow and teach a nice respectful young guy the ropes. You'll get there in the end. Have no fear. Take your time and respect your own feelings and the girls you meet. Then, with ups and downs, it will work out.

A bit more about myself:-

1. I broke my cherry at almost 40.

2. I into christian deity and still go to church almost every week. They don't give you much info sex or sex outside relation, and basically not much about sex. If they gave you adam and eve, they don't tell you about how the DNA will not go wrong while inbreeding.

3. I thought if I gave my cherry the first time with my first love, then she will be my "imprint" and I won't look for tastes of other women. Boy was I wrong. It doesn't matter. It only solves my problems. Have sex at anytime you want. You will forget it fast. Having hormonal shock is normal. No need to delay.Your problems won't drag on that way with sex solved.

4. I had casual relationship from girls online the next month after I broke my cherry. I thought FOC is best. May be. probably casual relationship force you to enjoy while you can.

5. Paid sex is a fair game. If I pay, I get someone to please me at anytime I want. Working girls are there to serve you. No need for movies, dinner, shopping, chitchat to make her happy. If she doesn't want it the last minute, I am OK. No one force anyone into sex. Respect and consent are the keys.

6. Finding a long term sex partner is actually preferable. Less protection, more experiments, bodily fluid is safer (both get medical check first, please).

7. I still keep a gf around. She doesn't know.