I don't understood why anyone would purposely seek out a virgin. When you go out to dinner, do you want the chef to know what he's doing, or do you want to eat something prepared by someone who has never been in a kitchen before? Good sex is about the giving and taking of pleasure, and if the girl isn't taking pleasure in it, it's not something I enjoy.
I've taken the virginity of several girls, but we were both very young and they were all girls I cared about, so the first few times it wasn't about me, it was about her. Unless you're a complete asshole, you have to be very gentle and patient with a girl who's never had sex before. So your pleasure doesn't even come into it; unless you get off on the control (and I think half of the pleasure guys take in this is actually disguised sadism). It's only after a girl has become physically comfortable with sex that she, and you, can begin to enjoy it. I would have been a lot happier if those girls had already had some experience.
These older guys who spend serious money to take a young girl's virginity have scumbag/loser written all over them.
Note that I'm talking about adult fuckwits who go looking for virgins, not two teenagers exploring their sexuality for the first time, which can be very sweet indeed.
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