A sad observation
I've spend the many years on business in China. Had many wg, get to talk to some of them and learn of their histories...
What are the option for a poor farmers daughter in China? (most with no more than a high school education, family can't afford it)
A. If she is plain looking, she stay on the farm or move closer to the city and work in a factory. Hope to meet another boy of her economic range and be marry. Happiness optional. Life repeats.
B. She is slight to beautiful, she stay on the farm and get pick off and used by the local bosses or force to marry off to someone with money, so your family can get a slight benefit for the short term.
C. She is slight to beautiful, she move to the city and realize there are no good paying jobs for her in the real world. Factory pays too low and office places wants "better educated" girl from another city, not a "farm girl". So for most the option is in the sex industry.
She get seduced by the chance of making really good money comparing to her family life back on the farm. She might even start out at a semi-legit message place and slowly they give her the options to make more money and the next thing you know she's a prostitute. She have to hide that fact when she goes home on the holidays, now the farm look like even more for losers. She might even shares her "successful secret" to her younger beautiful girlfriends. Life repeats.
Take a look around major China cities. Where are the 6,7 or even 8 rated girl on the street during the day?
either they are the educated girls working for the multi-national companies or girlfriends to some rich businessmen on her arms. The rest are MIA.
At night, in the bars, hotels, KTVs, clubs, message/saunda house is where you see most of China's 18-26 good looking girls. Because this is their few high paying options are.
Thus I'm sad for China's farm girls.
Yes, I'm a terrible person because I used them too. But I also feel very sad for a whole class of my China's girls.
This is just my observation... | |