Don't have any advice for you for Thailand as I haven't been there since college.
For Japan, specifically Tokyo, you got lots of options. Popular options among foreigners include Tokyo Hentai Club (delivery service) and soaplands. THC specifically caters to foreigners, so all the girls there are okay with meeting foreigners. Their default service just lists what is allowable by Japanese law, i.e. primarily BJ and no full service. But many girls there are open to full service, just gotta ask them and pay their rate. Kind of an under-the-table thing, and YMMV with each girl (I had one tell me she only offers it to her regulars), but it's certainly available.
Lots of soapland options available. A lot of them are in the Yoshiwara district. I think the most popular one for foreigners is Y-shirt, I've been there twice. They advertise that they're open to foreigners, but what they really mean is that only certain girls are open to it. The two times I've been, they wouldn't let me pick from the full list of girls available that date, but only from a smaller list of 5 girls (and saying the other girls are for Japanese clients only). You can find a few other foreigner friendly soaplands in that same neighborhood as you walk around, but I haven't tried any of those.
Outside of Tokyo, it's still doable to do these sorts of things but they tend to be more geared toward locals. | |