Reply #1 tanveer's post
Over the years, I’ve spoken with many DHs (Domestic Helpers) and WGs (Working Girls), and I’ve noticed a recurring set of observations from them. As someone who’s mixed-race, leaning between brown and white, and speaking with a distinct British accent, I’ve often asked about their experiences. The responses I’ve received typically fall into one or more of the following points.
Disclaimer: I do not condone racism in any form. These points merely reflect what I’ve heard and are shared to spark discussion and, hopefully, contribute to improving perceptions and interactions.
1. Respect
A common complaint is the lack of respect shown by certain South African and Southeast Asian (SEA) clients. This includes everything from dismissive tones and inappropriate language to expressions of disgust after the fact. These behaviors leave a lasting negative impression on the girls.
2. Violence
Sadly, violence or forced behavior is not uncommon for many DHs and WGs. While incidents involving white or Chinese clients are less frequent, reports suggest SEA and South African clients are disproportionately involved in such cases. This is an ongoing concern for the girls.
3. Personal Hygiene
Personal hygiene is a major factor. I’ve had experiences where WGs would check for cleanliness before letting me in, including ensuring I didn’t have any unpleasant body odor. Other girls are vigilant about grooming standards, such as whether clients are well-shaven, have clean teeth (especially for kissing), and maintain clean nails.
While the girls can’t always afford to be selective, just as we weigh preferences between different girls, they also evaluate clients. Good hygiene can make a significant difference.
4. Refusal to Pay
Instances of clients refusing to pay after services are disturbingly common. Some men even try to escape without settling the bill. Unfortunately, as seen on various community forums and Telegram groups, even more locals are engaging in this behavior, damaging trust further.
5. Protection
There’s a growing concern about clients insisting on unprotected services or engaging in unsafe practices like stealthing. Some even go to extremes, as evidenced by a Telegram story where someone reportedly concealed a nail clipper to damage protection during an encounter.
Key Takeaways
To stand out positively and foster better experiences, it’s essential to:
• Dress appropriately and act respectfully.
• Maintain excellent personal hygiene.
• Build rapport, trust, and intimacy over time, especially if you prefer returning to the same girl.
When you treat someone with dignity and respect, the experience can be far more enjoyable for both sides. In some cases, being a regular may even lead to better services, a few laughs, and, if you’re lucky, some unexpected perks
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