PSE would be rare at an AMP but you can get GFE depending on your rapport and chemistry with the provider.
If you get a CBJ and she allows you to DATY, 69 should not be an issue. You can communicate this via hand gestures or by leading.
BDSM isn't common though and I don't think its on the menu at AMPs.
You probably have a better chance of getting your special requests on finding a provider on PrivateDelights or such. Their menus will be listed and you can always ask for what you want in advance.
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