This may sound ridiculous but hear me out: autoerotic asphyxiation. I don't mean getting choked, but actually holding your breath. I have the exact same problem and a lack of oxygen to the brain plus sexual stimulation will get me hard as a rock. Here's how you do it: When having sex, exhale maybe half of your air and then hold it. Use your grunts and moans as opportunities to exhale air without making it look like you're trying to suffocate yourself, and don't inhale until you feel like you really have to, then breathe in just a little , never giving yourself a big breath. After a minute, you're basically in a state where you have a lack of oxygen to your brain and it should be much easier to stay hard. If you accidentally take a big breath, just start over. Once you get good at it, it becomes easy to starve yourself of oxygen while fucking; it might look a bit silly but being hard as tungsten should offset the embarrassment. My favorite method is to just get the woman to smother me in her breasts if they are large enough, and that works like a charm.
If this sounds silly, you can test it while masturbating. Jerk it and hold your breath, only taking small gasps when your lungs are fighting you. If I have a boring jerk session or have to hurry before work, I can pretty much control when I'm going to finish just by managing my breathing.
I swear to you, this works wonders and was an absolute game changer for me. | |
