Short answer: Just do it
Long answer: Do it. You will learn some things about yourself. What you like and don't like. Most likely you consumed porn videos before. You will find out that not everything shown in porn is fun or feels good, and vice versa, what feels good doesn't always look good. Go in open minded and try out things. Maybe you like getting rimmed, maybe you like a woman sitting on your face, maybe you like Anal, maybe you like getting dominated with a strap-on. Find out what you like, this will make you a better partner in the future. Knowing what you like yourself and accommodating another person is important in a relationship.
For the first time i would recommend someone that is "fun" and sees their services as a job. If they provide too much GFE, then your head might get confused. If it is too much PSE, you might be overwhelmed. It depends on you.
We can only recommend someone if we know where you are. If you are in Thailand, I think Ja from Bamboo Massage is up to the job.
In general, it might be helpful to let the provider know what you are there for. I forgot where i read it, but someone reported online that he had "multiple" first times with WG. Because he stated why he was there, they were more "caring" and took things slow. He seemed to enjoy that a lot and repeated his first time with many different WG. Just for your consideration. | |