Been with my wife for about 4.5 years and married 1 year. Our sex life is pretty good. If either of wants sex, the other will never turn it down. My wife often initiates too. I'd say we have sex 3x a week and it usually pretty good. Everything else in the relationship is great and we never argue. I love her and will never love another woman.
That being said, I love the feeling of seeing another woman naked for the first time and having a sexual experience. It doesn't necessarily have to be sex or a BJ either. I love erotic massage with a nice happy ending as well. I am certainly not looking for love or another partner and I would like to stay my wife for the rest of my life, but I think it would only be possible if I'm able to continue having side action. Maybe I'm different, but as a man, I just don't think it's possible to go through life only having 1 partner for 50+ years. I'm just glad that sometimes I love a long HJ much more than BJ or sex, so I can keep things safe and not introduce an STD into our marriage, but at the same time, still get some safe side action from time to time. | |