I'm the same as a lot of other guys here. I've been with my wife for over 12 years. I love her and don't want to leave her.
But she doesn't want to have sex as often as I want to, and she doesn't want to do all of the sex things I enjoy. Plus she's put on a solid 60 lbs since we got married, so now some positions are just impossible. After having a kid and getting older, her libido just dried up relative to mine, which is still going strong. She knows I want more sex in our life, but she doesn't know I occasionally seek out an escort.
I usually only go looking for an escort while traveling for work. Never in my home city.
But even if my wife was as stunning now as she was in 2012, I'd still be tempted to see other women occasionally. I like variety. I like seeing other women nude, feeling their bodies, and fucking different vaginas. It's exciting and satisfying on a very deep level for me to have additional sex partners.
I do not see the same escort over and over again; I have no relationship with any of them. I consider them like an upgraded version of porn and jerking off. It's strictly for my pleasure and sexual relief. (This should not be read as an implication that I am anything less than friendly with the WGs I see, fwiw.)
I still very much enjoy sex with my wife. I love taking showers with her, touching her, all of that. She's just less excited by the idea of sex than she was a few years ago. | |
