Local girl - not your usual transaction. Secret Lover
Date & Time of Session: February 2023
Location: Various hotels in HK
Name: Suki
Agent: N/A - through Heymandi
Nationality & Language: Hong Kong - cantonese
Age: late 30s
Face: 3/5
Body: 2/5
Height: 155cm
Skill: 4/5
Service: 4/5
GFE: 5/5
PSE: N/A
Price & Session Length: supposedly your own choice, but around 2k / 3k per time
Repeat: already have
Hello all - as promised, I said I would write more about how to find girls on Heymandi, the app. So the thing about working girls are they can be quite transactional. You pay them, you have a great time, then thats it. Yes, you do enjoy your time while with them, but afterwards its pretty much over. What if you wanted to have an exclusive relationship with a girl, but not really be in a relationship? Sort of like a friends with benefits, but you pay for it. There's a world in Heymandi called Secret Lovers.
As a guy, its difficult to get a match. But once you find someone who's willing to match with you, then you'll still need lots of patience to really get to know the girl. In a way, treat it like as if you were on a dating app trying to really date this girl. However, the girls will make it clear that they are looking for a secret lover and not a real relationship. The different between a secret lover and a working girl is that you sort of treat them as a girlfriend, and they pretty much are loyal to you. In return, you'll have to give them "gifts" or "financial support" to show that you "really love them". In a way, I think are girls who want to have a normal life, but make a bit of money on the side as a working girl - which they will disguise as "financial support".
Anyway, long story short. I met a girl there, and yes she is a bit older, but she looks quite young. She's really skinny, and pretty much doesnt have boobs, and has a small belly. Doesn't matter. My point is that we were able to really go on dates, where I would bring her to a dinner or a movie, then back to a hotel room afterwards for a really good intense sex session. Usually we would have a long fuck, then take a quick nap, then wake up again for another fuck before she leaves and goes back home to her husband (yes, they usually have husbands, which is why they call is "Secret Lover"). The good thing about these relationships is that you can really let them know what you like and don't like - sort of like a relationship in a way, but without the strings attached. Its so real that you have to give them gifts in the form of money. Apparently the more you love them, the more you can give them. I've seen some girls who ask for a monthly payment, sort of like a salary, of around 20k. I haven't personally met these girls yet, as I think its too much money to pay for an exclusive girl, but some people may be into that.
It is now May, and I "broke up" with this girl just a couple of days ago. The reason is because while some people enjoy having a girl who is exclusive to them, I personally think its time to explore the market a bit more. Although I've kept her contact, I don't really talk to her much - but I'm sure if I ever just wanted a convenient partner for a quick sex session, I can always call up Suki again. After all, they always say that they try to really love their secret lovers - and that the emotional connection really matters. But in the end, it really is the money that makes or breaks the deal. So my personal suggestion is that you can try this route of finding a girl - yes it takes more effort, and it does cots a bit of money, but the thrill of the chase is quite nice. | |
