Having two phones may have logistic issues (e.g., bills on credit card, hiding the extra phones) and leaving the main phone at work may also problematic (how to explain you are in "meetings" all the time).
My method is to join a gym that's close to action. I live in Hong Kong so the gym to join is Pure Fitness in LKF or Soho. Get a personal locker and put your the phone there then go to Kama or Mia or one of the numerous spas in the area, or use Butterfly hotel across the street for outcalls. Your SO will track you in the gym during that 1-2 hr, and you can explain your not answering her calls or messages by saying you are in a class. After the deed, go back to the gym and take a shower, to get rid of the scent and explain the wet hair.
Of course, you need to actually go to the gym to exercise too. Let's say you go every Mon, Wed and Fri, but use one of the days (randomly chosen) to punt. Your SO will then get accustomed to the routine. It's the irregularity of your behaviour that raises suspicion.
For bros whose SO use the same gym, take up swimming or ceramics? For those whose SO share every hobbies with you, you are a lucky man and should not punt. | |
