Actually dating in the bay area
I am asian American in my 30s living in the bay, I got into this hobby a few years ago after dating a girl I met on okcupid, who told me she was an escort after a few dates. We dated for awhile (never paid), but it got weird after she asked me to do odd things for her. Ie like cum inside her so a dude comes over and eats it out of her.
My question for you bay area people. Is it hard for you guys to find non working girls to date. I am on tinder, okc, hinge and rarely anyone attractive ever matches with me. I would say that maybe 20% of the escorts I see, they fall for me, offer free bbfs sex, cook for me, want to hang out with me on their time off, but I can't get a non working girl to even swipe right on me. I'm not naive, im sure some of the girls are using me for something, but some seem genuinely interested. I'm a decently good looking person, I don't want to be in this hobby forever. I would much rather prefer passionately fucking a significant other than an escort I can't even talk to haha, but there aren't many options out there =( | |