Just by listening to your story, i feel like you know the answer already. "breaking up on valentines day"... It doesn't sound like your in a romantic relationship if your only activity with her is going to expensive restaurants, pay the bill and get escorted back to the MTR. Sounds more like just hanging out indeed. So what is there for you to "break up"? Will she be sad that you won't take her out for meals anymore? What I understand here is that two friends occasionally hang out now and then, nothing more nothing less. I don't think you need to bring the 'break up' news to her. Just hang out less and less and see how she reacts. If she likes you she will moan about the lack of attention you give her.
If a girl really likes you, holding hands is inevitable. It's as basic as breathing air. So is a kiss after a couple dates, certainly not after 3 months or longer! Also, when a girl has a good time with you she would text you the moment you both depart AND the next day, and the day after, and the day after that. If she is not texting you, she prob is texting someone else. Texting is too convenient and incorporated into today's society that it doesn't take days. That also counts for the paying part, if a girl really likes the guy she won't mind paying.
Does she ever initiate or try to pay for a meal or suggest other things that shows her affection for u or decides things in your favour? Let me ask you in another way. What are the things that make you believe that she likes you and wants to be in a relationship with you as bf and gf? because dating to me is too broad to determine the closeness of the relationship. The fact that she doesn't hold hands and hug you is a too much of a red flag for me.
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