Dating and malicious intent
After growing up in the US, I recently moved to Hong Kong for work, and hoping to date casually.
My friend, a generation older than me (in their early 60s) warned me about girls in Hong Kong. For example, as a hypothetical situation: they warned me that if they know I grew up in the west, an attractive woman would try to peak my interest, strike up a relationship with me, and act all willing. But then in the middle of having sex, she would suddenly say "no", and then might later claim that I raped her. And maybe try to extort something from me. Or use me to emigrate, then leave me as soon as she lands.
In the west, we're not allowed to question accusations, lest we be cancelled. And none of the woke western relationship/sex-advice blogs even consider this possibility. But I honestly think that's naive.
Here's the real situation I'm facing now:
So, there's a girl who is pretty forward with me and giving lots of signs that she is interested in me almost immediately after we met. We met because I was looking for rentals, and she was the real estate agent. According to the woke western blogs, it's a green light for me to explore something with her. But what about the warnings from my older friend?
Is my friend exaggerating about the maliciousness of some Hong Kong girls, or is this common? Any advice on how to protect myself? Any stories to share? | |
