Hoverbee
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7-4-2022 14:53 |
There will not be a straight cut common answer I’m afraid.
I would boil it down to:
1) What kind of relationship you have with her?
You said you are a regular. Is there any deeper bond than just recognizing each other as punt buddies? Sometimes, seeing a regular can be reflected by the ease of booking and a better service satisfaction since you know each other already, however many might prefer not to get too attached thus the relationship between the 2 might stay in that of acquaintances with no real depth of thrust between the 2.
2) That brings on the next major point. TRUST
Do your own judgement of how much she trusts you as a person. All am saying is once you tell her and then there are 3 options:
- She knows about it. Appreciate your concern and its all good.
- She don’t know about it. She gets concerned but appreciate your honesty.
- She don’t know about it. Risk being the suspect that you are the one to post it there
Is it worth risking the outcome of the last option? Nobody can really decide that for you!
3) We all care about our regulars, but how much should we care? Some times taking the risks and let her know the finding is more important than anything. However, many others fall in the category of this is just a business transaction. Simply being a regular means you don’t necessary need to go through all the little details every time. Do you really need to mind that buisness and let her know and risk the smooth transitions taking place on your regular visits?
In the end, as I said…no one can take that decision except yourself | |
| HK_Legend |
7-4-2022 15:05 |
Acceptance +5 |
Good analysis. |
| MrButtons |
7-4-2022 15:10 |
Acceptance +5 |
Who are you & why are you so wise? haha - but yes, this is the best answer! |
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