Skils first, with personality
If the lady has amazing skills, and a fun, friendly, cheeky or naughty personality, believe me, she will start to look more attracive by the minute.
On looks, I tend to go for a great body, over a cut face, partly because of the above reason.
I have a couple of regular providers. One is drop dead stunning. Beautiful face with deeply irresistable eyes. She is a yoga instructor with a body to match. She is average in bed, and only ever talks about yoga and shopping.
The other is attractive, to me. She is getting older, but... Because she has outstanding skills, and can reduce me to a jibbering wreak within minutes, but make the act itself last an hour, even if I think I am about to lose it any minute... She is stunning to me. She looks just as good as she did, or better, than when I met her >10 years ago. Is she that cute to anyone else? Probably only if the guy has had the benefit of her skills...
I see the skilled lady far more often than the gorgeous one. The yoga lady gets a call just when I want to bang something beautiful. | |