She's taking advantage of your generosity and kindness.
Yes, there are setups where the young girl trades only sparkling conversation and no sexual favors for large sums of money from older men. It's a Japanese thing called "kyabakura" (totally butchered pronunciation of "cabaret club", and it's not at all a cabaret club since the girls don't and probably can't dance). Japanese guys need it badly because their social lives are the very definition of crippling loneliness, especially if they're married.
In the rest of the world, we guys should expect more from a girl if he's paying her a week's worth of her normal salary just for a few hours of her time.
Sure, conversation is lovely, and sex without conversation is mechanical and soulless, but conversation without sex is being taken for a chump.
Next time you see this girl. Just make your intentions clear. If she backs off, you've just saved yourself some money. If she goes for it, then you get to bang a girl half your age, and what man doesn't want that (unless you're under the age of 36). | |
