Slipping into Friendzone with Escort?
Well you chaps are going to think I am  crazy. But nonetheless, I have no one else to talk to about this situation. My community would think me in need of serious help if they knew I was partaking in mongering activity.
By way of background, I am in my fifties but quite fit, very active physically. I watch my weight and could still lose a few kgs but generally pretty trim. I have a good albeit stressful job but I can afford splurging. I appreciate the hard times many are going through and am grateful for my lot in life. I should also mention that culturally I really enjoy Thai or Indonesian girls. But the problem with these WGs is they only stick around for a few months. So I've been trying to find someone who might stay for a while. (I know others prefer protection of WGs who can't stay long.)
Recently, I connected with an independent escort. We met in a decent hotel (my selection) where we could sit, relax and I had brought some  drinks to take the edge off. The first time we met we seemed to hit if off quite well. She was very chatty, fascinating life and history (assuming it’s true). We got into some quite deep conversations and we suddenly realised our time was up. She was able to extend the time, but I had a work meeting to return to. We agreed to connect another time. I paid, she left and then I left.
So, now you’re thinking I must be crazy: you hired and paid an escort and didn’t get any action other than a kiss? Yes, in fact same girl more than once. We’ve met several times and she joked I’m her sugar daddy. (In fact I wouldn't mind that.)
We’ve talked about why nothing is happening and that eventually something would. To a degree she has shared her sexual preferences, desires, what she likes/dislikes and so on. However, she often deflects the conversation away from sex. Meanwhile she’s happy talking, drinking and laughing. Pretty good conversational GFE experience but we’re slipping further and further into the friendzone. 
But a few weeks ago an illuminating review (different web site) was posted about this escort, and then another (also different web site) and I thought, “Whoa.”  In these reviews, she’s much more of a sexual aggressor than she’s divulged to me. This harkens me back to my opening comments that maybe she’s just not into me physically. I’m coming to the conclusion that if given the opportunity to avoid being physical with someone she’s not attracted to, seems she’d take it. (Wouldn't we all?) We’ve kissed but thinking back on those moments, she didn’t seem that into it, which is completely inconsistent with everything else I’ve read about her reviews.
I guess my question is, have you encountered working girls/escorts who are really not physically into you (or lack of chemistry) and as a result they resisted you? How did you handle it? I’m sure y’all think I’m nuts  and will say “you handle it by moving on to the next girl where there IS chemistry.” But somehow this situation seemed it might be different. Welcome your views. | |
crazy. But nonetheless, I have no one else to talk to about this situation. My community would think me in need of serious help if they knew I was partaking in mongering activity. 
drinks to take the edge off. The first time we met we seemed to hit if off quite well. She was very chatty, fascinating life and history (assuming it’s true). We got into some quite deep conversations and we suddenly realised our time was up. She was able to extend the time, but I had a work meeting to return to. We agreed to connect another time. I paid, she left and then I left. 
In these reviews, she’s much more of a sexual aggressor than she’s divulged to me. This harkens me back to my opening comments that maybe she’s just not into me physically. I’m coming to the conclusion that if given the opportunity to avoid being physical with someone she’s not attracted to, seems she’d take it. (Wouldn't we all?) We’ve kissed but thinking back on those moments, she didn’t seem that into it, which is completely inconsistent with everything else I’ve read about her reviews. 
and will say “you handle it by moving on to the next girl where there IS chemistry.” But somehow this situation seemed it might be different. Welcome your views.