Reply #39 Marcade's post
Yes, you're absolutely right. I've been through so many permutations in my head, included the one you wrote  Yes, I admit it's puppy love, I've been here before. But this time, it feels different, I'm still figuring out why. Don't speak each other language yet we still understand each other and talk for ages.
But life has taught me that you can't plan everything, you have to just do it and see what happens. That's what I am thinking of doing. I guess that's the adventure I'm seeking. But I will always have a plan B, an escape route as it's in my nature.
I always laughed at the idea of a WG's boyfriend, how the f does that work?? I guess I'll find out. I will make it crystal clear to her what I expect from her and what she can expect from me. No agreement, then no deal (as hard as that would be for me).
While she needs money (for house, medical bills, etc) I will be there for her. Maybe not even in a sexual way, just be there to take care of her. Will she let me see other girls? I don't know. Do you think WG's know how to separate sex and love? I think they do.
She's a good girl, not a party girl, she's very frugal. She is young, so she's not as clued up on life as I am. When I was 27 I was thick as shit TBH concerning love, money and all the actually important stuff. I get this feeling from her that she knows what she's doing, but other times, she knows nothing (like how to operate a VPN). | |
Yes, I admit it's puppy love, I've been here before. But this time, it feels different, I'm still figuring out why. Don't speak each other language yet we still understand each other and talk for ages.