A few people have PM'd me about my experience (that I wrote earlier) so I thought I'd just write an update.
It's a long read because I wrote this stuff for my memories, for when I'm grey and old and my LB doesn't work anymore
What I want to achieve with this is to provide information for any other poor idiot, like me, who gets into a situation like this and is wondering where it goes.
My answer is simple, if you really love someone and she loves you back, go for it. Because love is rare and if 2 people love each other, well, that's even rarer.
I wrote that last post above before my trip to HK/Tokyo. A LOT happened during that trip that will stay with me forever but I'm going to write about my last week in HK as that was one of the best weeks of my life.
Grab a whisky because this is going to be long.
So, I'm in the queue at the airport to check in and I get a WeChat from a friend of my 'girl'. I'm going to call my girl 'X' from now on. She says that X has just left London and is going home. This is a shock for me because I thought I would see X one more time before she went home. I'm gutted.
The next message I get is from X. She's sad too so I say let's meet in Shenzhen. It's a total pain as I have to now rebook my flight, pay the penalty, book hotels, ask boss for another week holiday, etc. But I think, let's show her that I want to be with her.
Of course she's very happy. She starts sending me lists of places we can stay at when she gets here, she's paying. She's about to get on a flight herself and she hasn't seen her family for 6 months so it's going to take a few days so I agree to meet her in Shenzhen later that week.
I bum around HK for a while, wandering up and down Temple Street catching the eye of all the girls there, well, ladies. And I wonder, is this X's destiny? Is this what happens to you when you are no longer young and sexy? Depressing. I'm guessing for most WGs this is their future? The ones who are not good with money anyway.
All the riots and station closures have really fucked up HK so it's not really fun to walk around any more. I got to LKF and get drunk chatting to a bargirl and this perfect HK couple sitting next to me. I show them pictures of X and they say, of course, she's really pretty and I'm lucky. Makes me want to see her even more. Counting the days.
I'm kind of wondering about the 5 day visa thing. After I came back from Tokyo, I took a trip to Shenzhen for the day because, why not! I have never been to China and Shenzhen has this special visa so I thought I'd give it a try. It was a bit scary at the border, proper cold 1984 stuff, surprised they didn't ask me for hair samples. They got my fingerprints though!
In Shenzhen, I wanted to go to the big electronic mall they always talk about (not that special) and then check out other wholesale places as I want to start a business selling stuff from China. Couldn't really good find anything interesting though. Found some tiny drones with 4k cameras but you only get them cheap if you buy loads. Already loads on eBay.
I also went to fashion wholesalers, partly to see what mens stuff they had (nothing but what I call sports pyjamas that all Asian men wear). Why can't China copy stylish men's clothes as well as women's? The other reason I went as I wanted to see the sales girls and I wasn't disappointed! I walked around a few wholesalers looking at women's clothes and chatting with cute assistants. Fun and interesting.
Anyway, I mention this because I'm wondering if I can get back into China because I went before? There was a bit of a long pause at immigration but no problem after that. I found my hotel and then went to explore China! I would be seeing X the next day so I looked around again and then went to sleep.
The hotel was a funky chic hotel in an old factory and tbh it was ok, except for the windows that wouldn't close and the Aircon right outside. Thank goodness for earplugs.
So in the morning, I complain and they refund me the entire amount, in cash. I then find a swanky hotel for double the money, but it's worth it.
I get to this hotel and amazingly they are empty so they upgrade me to a suite. Nice. The stars are aligning! I message X and tell her I am at this hotel. She knows it, and I don't want to know why. She then sends me her location via WeChat so I can see when she is going to arrive.
I'm so eager to see her I wait outside the hotel.
A taxi passes me and a girl gets out but I don't recognize her so I look away. Then I hear 'baabbbyy' and this girl is X. I didn't recognise her because she has shorter hair as she's taken her extensions out. She looks amazing, the type of haircut I like, shoulder length. She's wearing tight jeans, the boots I like that make her nearly the same height as me, white frilly shirt and pink top.
I am so happy to see her I pick her up and hold her in the air. She weighs nothing to me , I could carry her all day. We walk into the hotel and I sense she is a bit wary of the concierge. Again, I don't want to know why. They give us the evil eye so we hold hands and I take her to my suite. She loves it and says that she wasnt going to stay with me in the nights (as she has a girlfriend she stays with usually) but now she wants to stay. She pushes me onto the bed and we kiss. But she is jetlagged still so doesn't want to do anything else. I'm ok with that.
That night, we hug in bed and watch tiktok videos until we are tired and fall asleep. It's very strange to watch her on tiktok. In between the funny videos there are make up ads and she nearly always buys the product. So wasteful, buying makeup just for a particular look. Being with a younger woman makes you feel younger for sure. And older at the same time.
The next few days are a bit of a whirlwind. I hadn't experienced that kind of feeling for a long time, since I met my first Japanese girlfriend in Tokyo. Plenty of time, money and sharing knowledge of a city. Fun times.
I won't write a diary of the next few days, I'm just going to write some main things we did and some observations.
In the morning, we wake up late (went to bed at 4am) and she says she can borrow her brothers car so we go and get it and drive it back to the hotel. I'm impressed that she can drive but other drivers are terrible. At one point, a car on a freeway was almost 90 degrees to us trying to get off and I had to tell her to stop. Crazy.
We go to eat at multiple places, some cheap, some a bit expensive, some I pay and when I run out of cash (no WeChat pay) she pays.
We walk down a boardwalk type thing and I want to take pictures of her but I just have a crappy Chinese Xiaomi phone (I also have a Google phone which obviously is useless in China) so the pictures were crap, but strangely 'dreamy'. It's my favourite memory of her.
We go to a place by a lake, seems like it's a common dating place, we drink fruity cocktails as she is driving and I don't want to be impared.
She introduces me to some of her friends, some speak English. Surprisingly, they are just normal looking girls, I expected her to have good looking girlfriend's, don't know why. I think I passed the test. I got to see how kind she is again as she always took our leftovers and delivered to a friend to have.
We went to various salons as she wanted to get a manicure. I wandered off while she did that and she got worried for me as she thought I would get lost. Actually, I was looking for a toilet as I needed to go No. 2 badly, I just cannot do squat toilets!
I wandered around a shopping street and just watched the culture. So many cute girls and guys who dress like they are 15 years old. A guy drags along a box full of puppies as girls coo over them. That's illegal in the UK.
The funny thing in China is that even in posh malls they have squat toilets. All those sexy girls you see walking out of Chanel with the bags have to pull down their panties and squat for a wee. I found that so funny. I know it's better for your body but so undignified and awkward. I can't do it.
We were having a coffee at a Starbucks later so I thought I'd look again for a toilet having failed before. After looking in Starbucks, McDonalds I finally found a Western toilet in a Pizza Hut. Close!
She asks me if I want a massage and I'm thinking she wants to go back to the hotel for sex. But no, she wants to take me to a fancy huge massage place where I'm the only white guy in the showers. X is a regular here seems like, we park right in front of the building and the car is valeted.
All a new experience for me. She books a massage for me and I get this older woman that gives me an awesome massage and later puts this spicey stuff on my back. Feels amazing.
Afterwards we eat at the same place. And then we lie down on these reclining seats watching films. We talk about family as we have similar family traumas. We connect even more.
There are screens with lots of women on them and I wonder why. Do the guys get to choose a masseuse? I wonder if some of the girls do FS. A lot of the women are older than 30 looks like, still fitter than most western women at the same age.
That night we have awesome sex but it's different because we are closer. I feel guilty because I come before she does because I'm used to it being like that. She won't let me go down on her for some reason so that's my excuse.
She's shy when we goes to toilet, she plays tiktok really loud to hide the sounds. So funny. I do the same thing later
She has only the clothes she is wearing and a red babydoll night dress. One thing I like about her is that she travels light and wears the same clothes. She has more make up than clothes in her bag. I need to hand wash my boxers and she joins me and washes her panties. We are standing there in this expensive hotel suite washing our smalls with shampoo in the sink
We go driving high up in some mountains and find a village. We walk around and talk. Later we find a couple of massage chairs and get a cheap massage.
We go to an aquarium which is really bad, I check it out on TripAdvisor and it has 1 star because it keeps a polar bear in a small space and it makes everyone sad. We sit in an outside theatre and watch these Russians high dive into the pool and watch sealions do their thing. She is enraptured but she is freezing as it's cold. I can't hug her to warm her up as she feels self conscious about other people watching. This was common, sometimes we held hands, and sometimes she batted me off.
I buy her a new iPhone as she gave hers to a friend in London and is borrowing her sisters. She only suggests it but I really want to buy it for her so she is always reminded of me when she uses it (it worked!).
We go to a popular night spot and drink fruit cocktails again. She gives me some dice and says do I know how to play. I am the master at Liars Dice and win every time. She is shocked anf amazed. I played in the Perudo world championships, lol.
In this night club area, she asks me if I want to drink alcohol. I WeChat her and say ' Baby, it is our last night together, I want to take you back to the hotel and make love to you'. She smiles, puts away her phone, grabs my hand and we go back to the hotel for the best sex ever. Totally different than anytime before, I could have gone bareback but I wanted to be careful (for her and me).
So that's it. That happened before this Covid bullshit and I haven't seen her since. We WeChat often but we got bored of saying 'I miss you'. Only so many ways you can say it. I ask if she is coming back and she says she will. I said I will not let her go back next time. She says she doesn't want to go back (but she loves China, almost nationalist, she probably doesn't even know about Tianamen Square). That's going to be an education if she thinks she is free.
So that's where we are now. I have a new job, she says she doesn't have any money but she knows I don't have any money either. I don't know the situation with immigration right now, are Chinese citizens allowed to enter the UK? I've accepted that I probably won't see her until next year.
UPDATE ON THE ABOVE : So, I have a new job which is paying well and we talk every week via WeChat video. She akss me for stuff but I say I am saving money. I tell her I will pay for things that benefit me too, for example, her plane ticket back. I don't know what her money situation is but it seems fine. She has a family around her. I don't know if she is 'working' but she tells me she works doing nails and stuff. She wants me to be her boyfriend when she comes back, not sure how that works but willing to try.
Wish I could post a picture of her here because she fucking stunningly cute, I can't stop smiling when I think about her.
I'll post a few a few pictures of my adventure but none of her. Some people have been thinking I am trolling, I wish I could make up this shit 
So until next year (when she comes back), I am trying SA because I have been with some escorts recently and it's just not the same. Hoping I can get some of that feeling back until she gets back next year.
Meeting an ok looking HK girl tomorrow so lets see!
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