Below is something I wrote on a previous thread here in the Mongering Talk section a couple of years ago. You can read the entire thread in this link, which has even more info.
https://forum.sex141.com/eforum/ ... &extra=page%3D2
Throughout the past couple of years, I've found a handful of really great sugarbabies on SA. The time commitment to reading profiles is extensive, and I have probably read over 2000 profiles by now. Here are some hints / advice / suggestions that I've learned from this screening experience, and I hope everyone will find it to be helpful. Please also contribute your screening tactics, so that you are able to find the right SB without having to spend hours and hours in reading profiles.
The first screening tool is built in to the SA website, and that is your preferences for body type / age / location / ethnicity / height / hair color / lifestyle. It's important to utilize these built in features so that you can filter out profiles which are definite show-stoppers. For example, some people are strict about age, or weight/body type, or ethnicity, etc. Make sure to at least cast a broad enough net to not miss on any "gems". One example for me is the ethnicity category of "mixed", which I did not check before. But I have found several cute Eurasians who categorize themselves as mixed and I would have missed out if I did not check that box. There is also some subjectivity, as these designations are self-reported. In the US, I have seen girls who call themselves "average" body type, but they are clearly overweight In Canada and Asia, it's the reverse, as girls call themselves "average" and they are actually quite slim, LOL!
The lesson here: CAST A WIDER NET, if possible.
Profile pictures
A LOT can be told from the profile pics that the SB puts up. I pay attention to the following:
1) Do they have a decent headshot? If they blur out their eyes, or some part of the face, that is OK, it may be because of privacy, but how do they look?
2) Do they smile? I have found SBs who take pics and they are frowning, or never smiling, and they are usually depressed or grumpy people. Or they have bad teeth.
3) Do they put too many cute snapchat bunny ears or weird head florals all over their pics? This is a reflection of their youth and may be generational differences. But too much of it is distracting.
4) What is in the background of the picture? I pay a LOT of attention to the background, and you can tell a little more about who they are, where they live, what they enjoy doing. Lots of selfies in restrooms, messy bedrooms, other dudes or girls in the pictures, partying, clubbing, messy beds, some hints to drug-use, makeup, fingernail work, type of purses they display, etc. LOTS of hints in the background, so study it carefully.
5) Do they present a full-body picture, and what angle are they taking their picture from? This is to make sure they are accurately portraying themselves. Bikini / swimsuit pics tell the most about a girl's physique, and that they are comfortable in their own skin. Baggy clothing or very dark pics is a bad sign. An absence of body pics makes me weary as well.
6) When there are NO public pictures at all, it can go both ways. The girls who eventually share their pictures with me are either SUPER HOT, or butt ugly. There seems to be no middle ground here, I don't know why. The hot ones just prefer privacy.
7) Most girls will try to show their best features, nice cleavage, big boobs, nice ass, etc. But I would be weary of getting too excited about any single feature, as it's usually hyped up a bit.
8) Of course watch out for fake pictures stolen from the internet. Always do a quick reverse Google image search or use tineye website.
9) Tattoos - generally tells a bit about who they are and if they have a wild/rebellious/crazy side to them. Non-distracting ones are OK, but some girls are quite tatted up, and lots of rings/ornaments/metal-ware in different places.
About Me section
I generally like to seek out SBs who are educated and cares enough to write at least a few sentences about themselves in a coherent paragraph or two. They could be sexy as hell, but immaturity, carelessness, and not spending much time in writing a decent profile is a bad sign, and could be a red flag. A completely empty section is not a good sign.
1) This section is for sharing a quick biography about who they are, and what they are interested in. Some words which are red flags for me: SPOIL, love to be spoiled, spoil me, LUXURY, HIGH MAINTENANCE, love shopping, PLATONIC,
2) A bad attitude can seep through in this section. Or someone who is conceited and self-centered. Young girls these days are millennials, and they are well-known for having a sense of entitlement.
3) Poor grammar. Sometimes it may be because English is not their first language, so that is excusable. But otherwise, if they can't write a complete sentence, then it would be difficult to communicate with them. Too much slang is a turn-off for me as well.
4) Rarely, there will be some who will write an entire novel about themselves, and that is a bit weird as well. Soft sign for some underlying issues.
5) Word I like to see: OPEN MINDED, hard working, love to TRAVEL, sincere, genuine, NEW to SA, FUN TIME, non-judgmental, love to please, educated, ambitious, seeking MENTOR, CLASSY, MUTUALLY BENEFICIAL
6) Seems like everyone loves traveling, LOL!
What I am Looking For section
Again, you would want your SB to be able to articulate clearly what she is looking for in this website.
Avoid any hints of the following: a professional escort, scammer, fake account (possibly created by a dude, since SB profiles are free), someone who is looking for a BF or husband, gold-digger, those looking for on-line or platonic arrangements, dishonest profiles, unreasonable expectations.
Happy hunting, and please contribute your thoughts as well!
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