Reply #1 iamtrout's post
Greetings, Bro.
A commonplace issue. Do NOT worry. Stress is a major erection killer.
Are you Cut [circumsized]? This makes a significant difference.
Natural male [un-cut]: foreskin shields [protects] the glans penis [dick head]. Hence,
un-cut men tend to have more to significantly more sensation.
Cut males: the glans penis [dick head] is banging around against your undies,
bluejeans or whatever. Over time, the superficial skin layer [the outermost
layer you see] will slightly "thicken" to protect the bare glans penis as the foreskin
is no longer present to protect [thank your well-meaning Parents]. Translation:
your sensitivity decreases. The range of decrease varies from 10% to 95%.
It is what it is.
Depending on your perceived % of decrease, condoms are not your friend.
[Disease issues are another matter] A suitable condom that allows great
sensation for a male with significantly decreased sensation simply does not exist.
Solutions Step One:
1. self-masterbation [wacking off] at 1 episode per week, MAXIMUM.
If a WG does the deed, great. As much as you want.
2. BBBJ by a WG are fine. As much as you want.
3. STOP THE PORN! It is not your friend.
4. STOP the Pocket Pussy! This is NOT helping.
5. NEVER NEVER see a shrink [psychiatrist or psychologist] for this inconvenience.
They will very successfully fuck with your head, place you on meds that screw-up
your erections, frequently on a permanent basis. They never mention this trivial
factoid . . . woops.
Solutions Step Two:
1. Tantric AND Lingham Massage will slowly increase your glans penis [dick head]
sensation. This takes time and CANNOT be rushed.
2. This method requires you to be PASSIVE [critical] and allow yourself to be
served. It is important you remain passive, try to relax and enjoy the different
sensations. Sometimes you spontaneously explode, sometimes you do not.
Both are normal. Ejaculation is not the primary purpose.
3. Meditation will greatly assist as (1) it calms the frantic mind and (2) allows the
mind-body highway to reconnect. Simple meditation [nothing fancy] will do
the trick. This takes TIME and cannot be rushed. The longterm benefit is
you will experience sensations you never thought possible.
HKG Problem:
To date, I have not found a COMPETENT and reliable provider for Tantric and
Lingham. The latter is far far more important. The below is my HKG experience,
designed to save you $$$$.
https://forum.sex141.com/eforum/ ... &extra=page%3D1
Positives:
Once you experience top shelf Lingham, an addiction [of sorts] happens as you
discover sensations you never realised were possible. It will literally "blow your
mind."
Some women are similar with Yoni [their version on Lingham] and/or yoga. When
they discover the sensation heights possible, that is all they want. You lose.
Summary: this is a common occurence amoungst otherwise normal "cut" males.
If you have sons, do NOT circumsize them. The "standard issue medical reasons"
cited are rubbish.
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