Cannot feel much of anything though a condom. Anyone else?
When I was young I was a chronic masturbator and didn't lose my virginity until 23. I think that this may have permanently decreased the sensation in my penis. I'm now in my mid-30s and continue to battle desensitization. It's an ongoing problem.
I've tried literally dozens of condoms from .001 to small to large to form-fitting to textured to latex to polyurethane to using lube inside and out, etc.
Nothing works. 90% of the time I lose my erection or I pump away until I'm bored or tired because I just can't feel much of anything. The other 10% of the time with a condom is ok, but this only happens when the situation is optimal (haven't had sex in ages, not nervous, very horny, using my favorite condoms and not some generic Durex).
In fact, depending on the girl, I might not even feel much of anything even when going raw because different girls have different textures inside and different levels of tightness. Ones that are smooth and tight do little for me.
And to prove its not a psychological thing, I can't finish or stay hard with any condom even when I use a pocket pussy that normally always gets me off (and quickly) when I'm not using a condom. I'm in the comfort of my own home - but I just. Can't. Feel. Hardly. Anything.
And like real pussies, not all pocket pussies can get me off. Ones with a more "natural" texture and tight ones don't do anything for me, despite them getting lots of great reviews. I have to go for ones with a more aggressive texture and larger cavity.
So... does anyone else have this problem? I don't use my hands to masturbate anymore - haven't for a decade. I only use a pocket pussy with lube, but I seem to have a permanent loss of sensation.
Anyone else in the same boat and how did you deal with it? | |
