Just wanted to give my 2 cents on this topic especially since I've had my share of fun, until recently moving to Hong Kong and discovering this website.
Personally for me, it's just a physical exercise and release situation for me. Just as I need to go to the fitness center to work out and stay fit, I think "punting" (new words I am learning from reading the glossary FAQs) is a form of exercise as well. Some need the physical release, some believe it's an emotional release. Although I am not married, I think marriage is when you are able to find a different sort of satisfaction, whether spiritual or deeper connection. However, I believe men have animalistic drives, and it is our nature to procreate and release... and therefore the act of punting. Some may even say to keep a happy marriage life, you have to go play to keep some sanity. | |