Reply #4 gwailoplayer's post
Bonding between an expat, a Chinese WG and her live-in 22 year-old son.... sounds like the making of a great Netflix series! Joke aside, I don't think your story is very rare. Many experienced bros might have experienced the same. Off the topic, many WG are living with their grownup offsprings, who kind of know what their moms do for a living. Surprisingly, at least based on the limited sample that I know of, these kids all seem to be very well turned out psychologically.
Don't worry about the son walking in on you. When a seasoned WG invites you to fuck her at her home, you won't see the son. Also, don't worry about COVID19. Her bed will be far safer than a hourly hotel.
Do you have a SO? If you do and if your WG friend doesn't know about that, it's time to come clean. There is a progression of affection shown by a local WG to a client. First, she answers your daily text messages. Then, you are allowed to stay for extra time. Next, you can take her out for a meal. She will probably ask you to book her last session of the day so that you can spend more time together, or to walk her home after work. Maybe a few sessions in hourly hotel and naughty weekends in Shenzhen. The finale is a home-cooked meal at her home. To reach this point means that she has emotionally invested in you. She doesn't necessarily need you to be single. But she doesn't want any surprise or disappointment.
When a WG offers to cook you dinner on a regular basis, because "you eat out all the time", that's when you must decide which way this should go. For some reasons, Chinese women tend to think single men are all clinically malnourished and their overcooked vegetables and watery Chinese soup will save our lives. She doesn't mind you are married, but expects you to go to your home to eat her soup once a week. Before you know it, she will start to use phrases like "when will you come home tonight?"
If this is not what you want, don't eat that first meal. Fuck her in her bed, make sure you pay. Or invite her to your place (if you are single). | |
