Dating an ex-working girl - sort of
Bros, I really want to share my story here, but not sure if it is the right forum.
I am in my 40s in a decent paying job and in a loveless marriage where my wife only cares about her work and my in-laws. Sex has become non-existent as we now sleep in separate rooms. So I have been mongering for a few years to get my pleasure outside. So up to now it was always paying transaction and pure lust.
But recently I met a working girl a few months back from the mainland in her 20s who worked in a spa. The sex was amazing and she felt like my first love again. I kept seeing her frequently and eventually we both knew we kind of have feelings for each other. She lives in Shenzhen when she is not working so I started seeing her across the border initially just for the sex. But recently she has stopped working in the spa and told me wants to get a proper job in Shenzhen. The last few times I saw her it was more like dating. The reason why I can go up without the wife suspecting because my parents lives in Shenzhen and I have excuse to go and see them and spend the weekend.
The last month has really changed as I go up to see her to have dinner, go to the cinema, walk around the mall holding hands just like a couple. And then go back to her place to have the most amazing sex, but it is beginning to feel more like a real couple sex as I spend the weekends with her. She also works out in a gym and we have been a few times together to work out and also go to the pool in the club for a swim. All of this time she has not asked for any money. I just buy her meals and sometimes bring up some of her favourite food from HK.
I know this won't last as I am twice her age, but she and her friends all says I look like some 30 something guy and she enjoys being around me. Last week got even more interesting as she came down to HK for us to go to the temples together, and afterwards she asked me if I wanted to meet her aunt who lives in HK for dinner. Her aunt is also from China but seem quite well off, and she knows I am married but asked me to treat her niece nice.
So right now I am leading a double life as this girl is one of the few things keeping me happy and sane. Work is going great as I have great colleagues and a team around me. It's just the home front that sucks and somehow this girl makes me feel young again. I know if she starts to ask for money or I feel something weird I will just walk away. But right now I am happy and to be honest I didn't mind her working in a spa before.
This is the story I want to share and I just want to know if any bros have similar experience entering a relationship with a working girl or ex-working girl? | |
