A bit more about myself:-
1. I broke my cherry at almost 40.
2. I into christian deity and still go to church almost every week. They don't give you much info sex or sex outside relation, and basically not much about sex. If they gave you adam and eve, they don't tell you about how the DNA will not go wrong while inbreeding.
3. I thought if I gave my cherry the first time with my first love, then she will be my "imprint" and I won't look for tastes of other women. Boy was I wrong. It doesn't matter. It only solves my problems. Have sex at anytime you want. You will forget it fast. Having hormonal shock is normal. No need to delay.Your problems won't drag on that way with sex solved.
4. I had casual relationship from girls online the next month after I broke my cherry. I thought FOC is best. May be. probably casual relationship force you to enjoy while you can.
5. Paid sex is a fair game. If I pay, I get someone to please me at anytime I want. Working girls are there to serve you. No need for movies, dinner, shopping, chitchat to make her happy. If she doesn't want it the last minute, I am OK. No one force anyone into sex. Respect and consent are the keys.
6. Finding a long term sex partner is actually preferable. Less protection, more experiments, bodily fluid is safer (both get medical check first, please).
7. I still keep a gf around. She doesn't know. | |