I Agree with all the bros up there. I guess you are living on a conservative environment the whole life and girl sex is the first time. Nothing wrong with a few activities that makes you happy.
Remember that:-
1. Sometimes a real vagina is nothing like our own palm. (it is true!) But there are vaginas that felt nothing like other vaginas and better than our own palms. THAT fantastic vaginas are something that you will meet in life ... but our ways of saying on internet is "tight".... we need to be more descriptive sometimes, haha)
2. good fit vaginas (on an ugly girl, depends on your tastes) are actually preferable than a loose fit vagina on a pretty girl. (perhaps that explains why some men are willing to stick with only one ugly woman all their lives, and a divorce is like a hell experience.)
3. Sometimes our own palms are our best SO (sometimes. yes, admit it. but not all the time.)
4. If you find someone very pretty and get excited and climax easily (that's ok, admit that to a pro), tell the Pros you have this problem and ask for a possible 2nd Q AHEAD of the session ... she will usually understand and add a smaller premium on the 2nd Q if the first Q is not hurting her and doesn't take too long. This also works for your future girlfriends and wives that you might cum within 30 seconds.
5. Alternatively, a very excited vagina will expand itself (you can see that at the vagina level, Labia minora swollen and the vaginal opening swollen ) . A swollen vagina usually will be a tight vagina. but you need to get her aroused and excited. Sometimes a Pro can be aroused too (or I think she forced herself to do that). A gf or wife at home - you can do that with 15 minutes of foreplay. With A pro you might be able to do when she start working in the morning, but she might be too tired if you are the end of her shift.
6. If you find the vagina too loose, don't worry the Pro will understand. (she probably feels it too). Tell her if there's alternative ways to have sex (e.g. Cow Girl on top, some more blow jobs, etc). Its perfectly normal. Pros are there to serve you.
7. If you feel a bit tired and your dick start getting tired or hurting from the movement, tell her to stop and give everyone a break. Sometimes a small naked hug for 5 minutes is also good. (yes, this is the old man style) You don't need to cum every time even though you spent your money. Her job is to make YOU happy, and You are not expected to make her happy and a Pro rarely get climax unless she is very very comfortable with you. That is not expected usually and fine by her. (she needs to watch over her phone, her CCTV, your fees, changes, towels, noises, police visits, badasses customers ringings the bell, the rent payment at the end of the month/the week ... you are probably not her priority but she needs to watch for you too. imagine that)
8. Remember it is mutual - Oriental girls usually have a shorter vagina - and there is no need to penetrate all the way. The Gland / the Head is more important. Conversely, western girls may looks as if they have larger vagina but often they have a deeper vagina and sometimes larger vulva. It doesn't mean she has a loose vaginal opening. Girls with shallower eye sockets usually have shorter vagina, and girls with deep eye sockets usually have longer vagina. Seems like a rule to me. A long dick might hurt a pro is she is not excited - that's what she claims, and what is an oversized is sometimes referring the grit of the shaft. However, imagine that's where a baby's head coming out, a vagina is fantastically elastic. No matter what, we are usually sympathetic to girls who's only way of living is through her vagina with different men all day. Give her a break if she says it hurts; she usually means it.
9. We are not porn stars. We don't need to perform like one. If quick cyclical in and out are your turns on then by all meals. You can try other things. But not necessary - if you feel good by one position only, keep it till cum. We all do that sometimes.
10. MUST READ: Keep everything CLEAN AND SAFE. Can't repeat more on this. Don't kiss anyone that's not your gfs or your wife. Don't kiss the Pros. Don't drink their fluid. Don't drink their milk. Not all pros are aware of hygiene and you don't know what diseases they are carrying (venereal, sexual, warts, herpes, OR even something like a common flu are spreading around these days). Clean and wash your bro down there - and cut your pubic hair short if they are longer than reaching your foreskin. I found my own pubic hair is one of the major way carrying "dirts" around. scary.
11. If you find any discomforts - swollen red heads, small whiteheads, "pimples", rashes, unusual fluid (those not your usual semen), smelling stink or foul smell ... go and visit a doctor right away. Younger doctors understand that this habit is quite common as a "social disease" - the private clinics around the corners will do. Modern Doctors shouldn't and don't put moral judgement on punters nowadays and they are more scared of you to complain them then ever before. Don't visit the govt clinic although they are free of charge. They would usually nag you out of "bad habits". of course that depends on your budgets. I usually pay for a test first (reports come within 1 week or shorter) then ask for the medication. follow the doctor's order. Although the cases are usually "urinary track infection".
12. I don't like sex in cheap Sauna anymore because it is small restricted with no room and no choice of girls, and you need to rush. And in cheap ones you can't do too man things. Also I bring my own Towels (2 at least) instead of using the girls' own. Plus I use a pack condoms even in a hand job. (don't laugh)(both condoms and towels can be bought quickly at Watson's or Manning). That surely keeps things clean somewhat and fewer things to see doctors afterwards. Well, if we sond $600 on a punt, why not pay for $100 or more for towels and condoms and protect yourself more. No one loves your body than yourself. haha. that's so true. Plus if money can solve our problems, why not pay it while we still can afford the money? | |
