Reply #7 JasonTrump's post
I'm probably a bit different that the opinions shared her, but I think by what you've explained there are 2 separate issues. I think a lot of us deal with regret or "buyers remorse" of paying for a crappy punt. I certainly don't like throwing money away.
But your guilt seems to be more relational that financial, which is a different matter. To me, that matters on what is more valuable to you. The way I see it, is that basically you are not being faithful and essentially lying to your partner. If you are okay with that kind of relationship, then you are fine to proceed. I like how some of the guys looked at it the other way in saying- to paraphrase, "I wouldn't mind if my SO cheated on me." But I think if you asked them, "Is it okay for your friends, colleagues and clients to be dishonest with you, to your detriment?", they would say "hell no!". But then again, I could be wrong or full of shit. | |
