Original Post
aurufc

9-9-2017 16:52


@ Destrike, read and take all the advice that the bros are sharing with you.  You are a courageous young man reaching out and sharing your situation.  Even if this is an anonymous forum this shows you are brave, self aware and intelligent.  There is absolutely nothing wrong with you and guilt is a mysterious dark force we all (unless you are a sociopath which you are not) battle with every now and again.  

As UncleDad mentioned, there is nothing wrong with going and talking to a professional and this does NOT mean that there is anything wrong with you!!!- sometimes (well mostly), it is better to talk to someone (who is a professional and CANNOT tell anyone what you talk about) you don't know who is completely objective about your situation.

You have actually made the 1st step in reaching out on this forum and keep doing that - you will see that there is no judgement here (unless you shag grannies like Obe).  Without speaking for others, maybe you could PM a bro who's advice particularly hit a spot with you and I'm sure they would respond 1-2-1

Stay strong and be safe.

@ all the bros that spent the time reading Destrike's sharings, saw a young man in pain at a confusing stage of his life an then took the time to give detailed advice............this is why this is a fucking great forum and the 1st one (on any topic) I have ever contributed to.

Keep up the good work.

Au

[ Last edited by  aurufc at 9-9-2017 16:53 ]

UsernameTimeCreditsReason
cruman999 9-9-2017 18:59 Acceptance +6 For the Obe comment :)
UncleDad 10-9-2017 22:49 Acceptance +4 My sentiments exactly. Thanks for filling some holes I forgot to add
zebrazebra 22-6-2018 22:09 Acceptance +3


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