We All Have To Start And Learn Somewhere
I am sure the experience is familiar with many of us, whether we never had a girlfriend, in a relationship, married or divorced.
From my own experience I've been punting almost 18 years now. It has been a steep learning curve as I had been scammed with some girls and had some really forgettable experience at the beginning, but as you grow older both your LB and your mind puts you on a straight and narrow with more focus. What I mean is that a lot of the initial punts starts with wanting a total GFE or a PSE like you see in the AVs. Most of the time after the session you will feel empty emotionally as reality sets back in. That's how I felt during the first few years.
Then I had a long term girlfriend who eventually became my wife now, although we try many things in bed but sometimes the LB wants to try something different. Initially I made a mistake of falling for a couple of the WGs and got emotionally attached to them, but that was a bad move as most of them are after money rather than finding a relationship of any sort. So after that I had to learn to balance between home life and my punting life. With my work I spent a lot of time on the road around the world as I have done close to 2 million miles and 500 round trips to god knows how many countries over the past 18 years. So over the past few years I have learnt to have fun on the road and when punting outside now I sometimes seek something simple like a rub and tub with some GFE thrown in, sometimes a really dirty PSE BBBJ with CIM or COF, and sometimes an all night session at a hotel so I can just do whatever I feel which is a mixture of GFE and PSE.
But at the end of the day what I have learnt to control is never let your punting life affect what you do with your home life or work life. Luckily my parents are quite open minded and knows what I and my brother get up to sometimes, but they always say "whatever you do outside, don't let the feelings affect what you do at home". And nowadays I choose my girls very carefully as some of them I see regularly but don't have any emotions attached to them (there are a few that I keep contact with depending on what kind of mood and experience I am seeking, and they treat me like a regular customer like you go to eat at your favourite restaurants, which means sometimes they make the effort to give you the PSE or GFE you want in order to keep coming back for more). You have to remember they are not exclusive with you and they will work through hundreds if not thousands of punters during their respective careers. So just enjoy the moment and when a gem appears sometimes have fun with her. Cos life is too short and you only live once! | |
