SA experiences
Bro, I understand your reservations. There are some great girls on SA who are genuine, need $ but also some affirmation and enjoy the companionship and breadth of experience from an older, mature, more established and accomplished gentleman. Their male peers, in comparison, are just immature hacks! But words of warning below, there are some definite scammers and fake profiles out there, so you have to use your common sense before even getting to the meeting up stage.
1) Their profile gives you a lot of hints about who they are. Read it carefully and get a sense of who they are, or at least who they are trying to portray. Some are very short, some leave it blank even, and some are extremely long, like short novels. I prefer profiles that are descriptive, to-the-point, and show that they have some modicum of intellect. I even pay attention to grammar, and some of this is generational differences. The young ones will tend to use lots of slang, acronyms, and poor grammar.
2) Know for certain that some of the SB profiles are dudes posing as girls. I've seen guys admit to this on other websites, as a way to find out some info, LOL. Maybe they are bi? It's free to sign up as a SB, so some guys think.. why not?
3) If you have premium access, you can see how active they are on the site, when they last logged on, etc. Look for inconsistencies.
Many SBs give a LOT of hints to their "real life" info, even putting it as their profile name, or using their social media pictures. Of course, these can be fake profiles as well, so watch out.
4) A friend of mine got scammed over $1000 by someone threatening them for soliciting an underaged SB. The profile lists an 18 year old, and through the messaging, they changed to 17 year old. Then they claim to be the girl's "father" and asked for $1000 via Western Union or they would expose him to his employer, wife, family, etc. He sent the money hoping they would go away. Guess what, within a few days, they come back asking for more $$! He had to hire a lawyer to fend off the blackmail / extortion scheme, and it eventually ended.
5) NEVER give away your real-life info. Use a burned phone, use a fake name, have an entirely different persona for these type of adventures.
6) Always meet at a public place beforehand, and don't talk about $ matters in public, certainly not about sex. Just use that time to get to know them. Then go to your hotel room, car, or somewhere private to talk about the details.
7) There are some women who are big-time scammers out there as well. I've encountered some crazy shit. One conversation with such a person from Singapore, where I'm going next:
Me: (paraphrasing) love reading your profile, I believe we have compatible interests, I will be visiting SG in a few weeks, hope we get to meet up!
Her: Can you afford at least 1k per meet?
Me:I can certainly afford it. But my willingness to do so depends on what's being offered as part of the arrangement...
Her: I'm not a machine. If you're boring, just coffee and 1k for my time.
LOL, needless to say, this is not someone I have much interest in meeting.
I have met up with several nice young SBs, some I've met multiple times, one I'm getting ready to travel with, so it's worth it in the long run. Takes a LOT of time doing research and lots of dead ends, so you have to have patience and time. | |
