Reply #1 Jonpher's post
First, if you absolutely can't get caught then I'd say don't play. I've only encountered one scammer. She met me at a hotel and wanted me to give her money to get the room. I said I'll get it and she argued, so I left. That's been absolutely the only thing I've had an issue with using SA.
Best advice is only see girls that will meet on your terms that keep you private. Here are my best do's and don't for using SA.
Do's
Do be direct in all your communication about what you are seeking. If you want sex, then say you are seeking intimacy. Lies waste your time and can waste your money.
Do use a real photo on your profile but not one that is close up of your face. Save those for the private photos.
Do develop a basic message that you send to everyone. Once they respond, then get off the site and use text, or Kik, or something like that.
Don't
Don't ever give out enough information to be identified in real life.
Don't ever give an amount you will pay for a sex act first. Always get the girl to give you a figuer first. In the US police can't give you a cost for a sex act as it is considered entrapment.
Don't ever meet a girl at their place the first time. This goes for hotel rooms as well. You don't know the house and you don't know who else could be in the home.
Don't ever pay what a girl asks for initially, unless it is lower than your average amount.
Don't waste people's time. It really sucks to do that.
If you can't meet first in public then insist they come to you. You will lose some because you won't give the amount first, you will lose some because you want them to come to you, you will lose some for no reason at all. Just move on, there are many more out there.
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