some re-hashed thoughts on SA from a previous thread
1) Price per punt: I'm not that good of a negotiator and tend towards the generous side (some may label me as a foolish spender / push-over, and that may be true as well). My preference is to stay in the $300-$500 range per visit. In other cities, this is a real sweet spot for seekingarrangement, and you can find some quality women for sure
2) Screen name: Good insight rom Jake. I have to pay more attention to this next time. There is definitely some cross-over between escorts and seekingarrangement.
3) BYOC - need to bring your own condom. I suspect some bareback is going on, since some of these semi-pros don't know the business that well, and are a bit naive. But I always insist on a cover.
4) There's quite a bit more pre-meeting work when punting on seekingarrangement. Emails back and forth, sending pics of yourself, getting some rejections. Some girls take a few days to even respond, and some won't respond at all. I've gotten some who will ask for a picture, and then go silent... I'm OK with that, no biggie.
5) The few girls I talk to all say that seekingarrangement is HUGE in the college campuses. LOTS of girls know about it, and they love meeting up with rich old guys, LOL. The sugar-baby scene is apparently quite popular, and they will introduce it to each other.
6) There are apparently some sugardaddies out there that are looking just for friendship, companionship (non-sexual), someone young and pretty to dine with, strictly platonic set-ups. This surprises me, but apparently it's out there.
7) I've done too much punting throughout these past few years, and I've become desensitized to the pros who see multiple clients a day, who are mechanical, and go through the same routine with every punter they see. In my early years, this was OK and I could still have an enjoyable time. But these days, the thought of being in line with 10-15 other punters seeing the same girl... kinda grosses me out. That's why the seekingarrangement peaks my interest. So far so good, almost all of these ladies have been super-horny! One way to tell, they get extremely wet down there upon some nominal stimulation, DATY, FIV, etc. NO LUBE NEEDED!
8) With pros, they have a "business" so they have incentive to be on time, show up when they say they will, and generally try to give good service. Otherwise, they might suffer from negative reviews, which will in turn hurt their business. With semi-pros/seekingarrangement ladies, there's no such mechanism for checks and balance. So if they flake out and don't show up, there's not much recourse for the punter.
9) I have better success with those who are interested in communication outside of SA, be it texting, email, WhatsApp, LINE, Wechat. That's a sign that they are more interested in you.
10) I always try to share as much about myself as I can in terms of describing physical traits. I give my age, height weight, etc. Also mention right away that I am Asian-American, so there are no surprises, LOL!  Most will insist on a picture, so I send them via text or email, or direct them to a link. For discretion, I keep my profile pics private and blurred.
11) I look for favorable key words like: open-minded, looking to have "fun", NSA (no strings attached), discretion, love to have a good time, first time on SA  , college educated or higher education/graduate degree, seeking help with tuition, rent, books, etc. I prefer those who are smarter and not just bimbos. The reason is because there is a greater level of "openness" and you don't want to have crazy drama in your life. Also "drama-free", FWB (friends with benefit).
12) I avoid those who only talk about themselves, how much they want YOU to "SPOIL" them, how they are looking to get "pampered", showered with gifts, etc. I almost start avoid any profiles with a "Wish List", where you can buy things for them prior to even meeting up!? | |
Most will insist on a picture, so I send them via text or email, or direct them to a link. For discretion, I keep my profile pics private and blurred.
, college educated or higher education/graduate degree, seeking help with tuition, rent, books, etc. I prefer those who are smarter and not just bimbos. The reason is because there is a greater level of "openness" and you don't want to have crazy drama in your life. Also "drama-free", FWB (friends with benefit).