Original Post
jeffzeke

10-7-2017 11:52


After a few more months on seekingarrangement, I have some additional insight to share, and hope these may be of benefit to some fellow punters.



    1. Some girls out there do not have a good understanding of the "sugar" relationship.  They either put out nothing essentially, and expect to be paid, some just to talk to them or even for the initial "meet and greet".  Make sure to weed those out right away.  
    2. You can tell a LOT from their profile.  Some just talk about themselves exclusively, even being bold enough to call themselves "spoiled", "love to shop", expensive taste, "spoil me rotten", what can you do for me attitude shines through.  AVOID these.  The profile can also reveal some underlying attitude issues, "don't waste my time" "any REAL men out there"  AVOID these.
    3. I am weary of 18-20 year olds.  The maturity is usually not there.  Of course you have to always watch out to make sure they are at least 18 years old!
    4. You have to be an expert in evaluating photographs.  Some end up much less attractive than their glamour shots they took 10 years ago.  Some, however, have average pictures, but turn out to be very pretty in person!  
    5. Moving to texting / phone call is my goal.  That shows some intent and openness on their part.  
    6. Watch out for the crazy / bipolar / depressed ones.
    7. We all like different things, but I tend to prefer college educated, or even ladies with higher education, graduate degrees.  Just more in common, for me.  For some of you, education level might not be a big deal.  
    8. When to discuss the money aspect of the arrangement.  This has varied, but it has worked well both ways.  Sometimes we get that agreement beforehand, even before we meet.  Othertimes, we discuss in person only after dinner/drinks etc. when we both want to proceed with the arrangement.  
    9. If the sugarbaby LIKES you, you are GOLDEN   For providers, almost all of them will proceed with the act and basically pretend (if they are skilled) to give you some affection and let you bang them.  For the SB's who connect with you, WOW, they will be all over you, dripping wet pussy, tongue lashing, humping you like crazy in cowgirl, leg-shaking, multi-orgasmic events!  It's unbelievable what can occur, and it would be highly unlikely to duplicate for professional providers, at least in my limited experience.
    Set boundaries about phone calls, frequency of texts, frequency of visits, and expected allowances.





[ Last edited by  jeffzeke at 10-7-2017 11:54 ]

UsernameTimeCreditsReason
UncleDad 10-7-2017 21:46 Acceptance +4 Great info!
stinkyfeet 11-7-2017 01:55 Acceptance +8
kingstada 11-7-2017 09:58 Acceptance +3 thanks!
suriboy 11-7-2017 14:59 Acceptance +1 Thanks! Valuable info!
ramont 14-7-2017 06:12 Acceptance +10 good update
blast77 9-11-2017 14:07 Acceptance +6 Golden insight
sirtiger 18-11-2017 02:45 Acceptance +6 Favorable


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