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simphbasan

12-5-2017 15:54
@jeffzeke

You would be correct, LOL - What happened to me is "out of bounds" for most people (at least around here).  

But as I said, I didn't even know that I wanted that. It just all... "happened".  In my case, I ended up saying: "Hey, what if we..." and she responded with "Hell fucking yes!" (Really weird how we get each other that way). We just turned out to be compatible in every way imaginable... sexually, mentally, etc... It's been great.

What I'm really want to say to anyone reading this thread is that on SA or similar sites, you can find a lot of different things, because the girls there don't really have any real experience in the game.  To a lot of them, it's all very new and sometimes very intimidating. Because of that, I think it's important that YOU (as the SD) know exactly what you want out of the arrangement - and you make damn sure that you set and maintain the boundaries if that is indeed what you want.

The rules that you posted from ShysterJon make sense for most, as the desire is to have an arrangement is about having fun, not "catching feelings".  I would be very careful trying to enter a "strictly business" relationship with a younger, less experienced lady however...  sometimes they can be the ones that get attached.  My GF has told me that out of the group of girls that started her sugaring, 3 of them were "dumped" because they got too close to their SD's, and 2 of them are just major players... they have multiple daddies and that's how they live their lifestyles. So remember that there are also some REAL PROS at the SD/SB game. Be careful and pay attention when you begin to date/meet!

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jeffzeke 18-5-2017 13:29 Acceptance +6 good advice!


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