Nowadays feel like these punts are all average and nothing home to write about.
Does anyone else feel this way too? I know the feeling. But when you say "all these punts" how many are we talking about here?
You realize that you're having sex with a (hopefully) reasonably attractive and entertaining Asian woman, culminating in at least one orgasm, right? There are guys in the West saddled with debts for consumer rubbish, who will spend that amount of money on a date with someone they don't exactly click with (let's put it that way) in the HOPE that sexual activity might the result, right?
Maybe you're in your 20s and look like Brad Pitt--I'm not. I punt regularly because it's my hobby and it's entertaining at a minimum, and sometimes far more than that. I don't write up every punt because some of them are, in a sense, average--in that it's a routine I've done before.
But they're NOT. I have great fun with the gals I repeat with and while there's a routine (generally, WGs prefer regulars and a routine--it's their prerogative), it's one that I enjoy...or I wouldn't be there. I write when I travel or when something noteworthy happens.
I'm not bored, I consider myself blessed that at my age, I'm still mobile in a city that vibrates with all manner of life. Hong Kong itself is an aphrodisiac as I grapple with transport, crowds, WeChat messages urging me to show up...then arrive (godDAM hope the lift works...) and waltz into the pink-lit pushup-bra Arena of Fun. Women who take pride in blowjobs, and/or cum like jet engines atop me...this is average? Nay, sir--it is exceptional.
But as I said, I know the feeling. We are, make no mistake, spoiled rotten by the availability of fine WGs in this pulsing electric city, all over town, firing our libidos. If you feel you're becoming jaded, STOP. Stop writing, stop punting. Stop masturbating, watching porn, go monastic on your penis, get a girlfriend who does nothing but nag, taste the bitterness...because for a lot of guys, that's the reality. Do it.
For a month. Then go visit a 141 provider and tell me again how "average" it seems.
It's all relative, bro.
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