I have met a number of different types of women in this hobby. Innocent, conniving, self-serving, compassionate, money hungry, passionless, intelligent, dumb, rude, professional, and any other descriptor that you can imagine.
I could copy the above and show that I have met all of these exact same types of women in my non-hobby relationships over my life.
Being involved in the sex industry doesn't change the type of person one is on the inside, it normally just normally amplifies an individual's best and worst traits. It goes for the girls and the men.
I could easily spend the rest of my life with a few of the girls I have met inside the hobby. Their history is no more sorted than mine when it comes to the who they've done or the what they did with them. I judge people on one thing and one thing only, how they treat me when I am with them.
I think of Ann from Pattaya. I met her online and we spent a few great days together. I just knew her as a Ann. A lady that had owned a small laundry and had an English boyfriend that got her knocked up and then ran off. She lost the baby and was too broke to keep her business running. It was an all too frequent story. I enjoyed spending time with Ann. She was amazingly funny and had a sharp wit as well. I found myself feeling close to her and when our time together was up, I lamented the fact that we were going to be apart for a long time.
Jump forward a few months and I see a report on a board talking about a new sex club in Patts called Excite. The op posts that it is owned by a lady named Ann. There was a photo in the report and low and behold, there was my special little lady Ann, the owner of the club. WTF?
My lovely, funny, shy, little Ann was a Patts legend. Need a girl that can give you the best BBBJ ever? Ann. Need a tiny little girl that will take it up the ass like a pro? Ann. A gal that can drink you under the table? Ann.
Well, that was a surprise. After the revelation on Ann's past I did some self-evaluation and came to the conclusion of, who gives a shit. When we were together she was awesome. A lovely girl who was fun to be with the entire time. I could not set in any type of judgement.
So I agree with the OP's post. We are all part of this game. We are all equally corrupt in the eyes of the world.
I see Ann every time I am in Patts and I have had a few rounds with her during my visits. She is still the girl I met on my first interaction with her as well as a Patts fucking legend. | |
