I agree that there's nothing wrong with becoming romantically attached to a WG. That there are some good ones out there. But there is some truth (and I'm not ongoing out Thais), but WGs) as a whole tend to have some serious trust issues when it comes to men. They can't hide behind innocence and pretend that her man doesn't go punting. Especially when that's how y'all met. For 2 people to commit and adhere to a longer term monogamous relationship, this poses as an obstacle and challenge. Similarly, you know that this girl is OK with engaging in this industry. Yes, everyone has a past, but what's to prevent her from getting involved again if she wants a few extra bucks? Are you okay with that?
Yes, if you become romantically involved with a girl who frequently gets gangbanged, you're probably asking for trouble. But with civvies, it's a case where they might just want to get it out of their system. Or maybe if you're able to satisfy their needs, they won't run around on you.
The threat of disease is one thing. What would concern me getting involved with a WG, is the same concern with anyone that is interested in fast cash. Making money is great, but fast money comes generally comes from morally grey areas. Prostitution, drugs, scams....Etc... Get-rich-quick schemes. My problem isn't about cleanliness, but about that fast cash mentality.
That being said, I was kind of involved with a KTv girl for a while. Difference was, she wasn't in it for the money, she was in it for the free alcohol. Haha. And, I wasn't looking to settle down at the time, and she was a lot of fun.
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