Thai girls are no worse than girls in my country
So many members on this board as well as other boards on the internet speak of Thai girls so negatively. They are spoken of as lying, deceitful, conniving con artists who seek to trick men into falling in love just to get money out of them. That these girls are primarily motivated by the money they could get out of a man and will chew him up and spit him out, leaving him broke and his life in shambles.
Most of us to Thailand for the sexual freedom that we don't have at home. We want to fuck as many young, hot whores as possible for as little as $30 USD. We don't go with the desire to meet a whore, fall in love and turning a whore into a housewife.
I don't think you all need a reminder that at the end of the day, these working girls are girls, no different firm girls where you come from. They have dreams, goals, aspirations. Many see the "whore life" as an opportunity to meet a nice foreign man who will take care of her. An hope of a better life.
As alluded to before, many of us are not in Thailand to be these whores' dreams, goals and aspirations. These situations are no different from situations at home where we just want to casually fuck with no strings attached. But we all know, shit happens Sometimes we develop romantic feelings for a whore whether or not that was a part of our intent in visiting Thailand. Now thoughts of a relationship (or even more) is coming to mind.
If you are comfortable with the idea of being in a relationship with a whore. A girl who has taken hundreds if not thousands of cocks in her pussy and ass for maybe $30 USD. A girl who has sucked the semen out of hundreds or thousands of cocks, and maybe even swallowed it all. A girl who has done all she can to please customers who are physically the most unattractive kind of guys. A girl who might have exposed herself to, and who might be carrying all sorts of disgusting STDs. Knowing all that, if you could be comfortable with the idea of being in a relationship with her, why the fuck not?
Personally, I'm absolutely comfortable with being in a relationship with a Thai whore, knowing that all the aforementioned sexual history might be true. Reason being is that I have dated many girls here in the states who have had sex with countless men for free. I'm talking middle class, college educated women with sexual histories that are promiscuous, you wonder what sets them apart from the Thai whores. These are include girls who had no problem meeting guys at bars and going home with them same night. Girls who have no problem meeting guys online and going home with them on the first date. Girls who have indulged in the occasionally gang bang, orgy, etc. I have even come regular American girls who have confessed to a history of chlamydia, herpes and HIV. Frankly, I think the only thing that sets apart Thai whores from many American girls is that Thai whores get paid for being a slut and many Americans are sluts for free.
Another reason why I am personally comfortable with the idea of being in a relationship with a Thai whore is because being a customer doesn't make be better than any of these girls. So, we have feelings for girl and we are comfortable with the idea of being in a relationship with them. Many would say run for the hills. She only want your money. She will pretend the feels are mutual and rip you off. She will suck at muck money out of you, leaving you with a broken heart and broke pockets.
Many board members make it seem like relationships with women in America or wherever they are from are free and predictable. I had to spend $500 USD on dates courting my current girlfriend before we started fucking. I still have to take her out on regular dates and buy her gifts on all major occasions (birthdays, Christmas, valentines day, etc). My point is that having a girlfriend anywhere costs money. The only difference is that there are cultural and economic factors behind relationship expenses based on where you are in the world.
In America, I date middle class girls who make enough money to pay their own bills. Chances are our Thai whores came from very poor backgrounds and turned to prostitution out of desperation since it's their only way of making decent money. Gender roles in Thai culture dictates that men helps take financial care of their women. If you are in a relationship with a Thai girl and she asks you for money, it doesn't mean she is a Gold digger who's after your money. It doesn't mean she's using you. It doesn't mean she sees you as a vulnerable sucker. It's just a cultural norm in Thailand for women to seek financial help from men who they've had romantic and or sexual history with. Many board members hear about sin sot or dowry and they don't understand it, so they think someone is getting ripped off. Dowry is a cultural norm all across the world. Maybe a whore isn't worth a large dowry, but that's another discussion. My point is dowry is a cultural norm and not a rip off. Furthermore, one of main reasons why Thai girls turn to prostitution is so that they can help take care of their family. She is going to feel compelled to help take care of her family no matter what. So if you get in a relationship with a Thai girl and you become her main source of income, where do you think she's going to get money to continue helping her family? Thai girls seem to go above and beyond for loved ones. If she loves you, she will probably go above and beyond for you too. Nevertheless, asking for money does not make a Thai girl a bad person.
Relationships are hard regardless of whether it's with a Thai girl, American girl, Brit, etc. Cultural differences make relationships even more difficult, especially if we don't understand each others culture. Differences in educational level add to the difficulty of understanding each other. LONG DISTANCE MAKES IT ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE. Regardless of those difficulties, Thai girls are no different from girls all around the world in that they too dream of settling down with a man who loves and respects her. A man who makes her feel save and secure, both physically and financially. I wholeheartedly believe that Thai women want a long successful relationship just like anyone else, and will do their best to longevity and success.
To conclude, if you have spent considerable time getting to know a girl and her getting to know you. You genuinely care for her and want to be with her. You enjoy not only the sex but all the other experiences that you shared together. You can imagine building a strong Happy future with her. And it absolutely will not be a long distance relationship. Why the fuck not explore the possibilities, as you would with a girl from your country? | |
